Love: Where Has the Common Sense Gone?
One Thing That I'm not
is a Love Expert. I have envied those enlightened areas of the heart for years, but when you get past the 12th grade, that says a lot about how less a person does know.
Then I can speak volumes about my dad and my daddy-in-law about how easily they could load up their tools and in an hour or so, they would have so much firewood (for the upcoming winter) that they would almost leave me sweating and heaving to just get one tree to the ground. I would say something about how these two and those of their generation grew up with an axe in their hand and a cross-cut saw in the the other and the hard work just grew with them.
Love and The Train That it Came
up on, has more sides than any geomatric design, and each one is more lovable than the first one. Love's like that. Just when you have "love" figured out, someone pulls the switch and things get mixed up and broken sending people like me in a dangerous spiral.
With love, as we all have been taught, we are a society of givers and if one is so be successful in love, they must learn to be able to be gracious in receiving the gifts those who have love for us and just love to give something to us. That in itself is a very complicated season of affairs.
But as Years and Time
sped up it just growing faster and faster until we of the human race simply fell off of the Love Train and started walking or just holding on for dear life and hoping that something good would come our way.
Then it happened. Dating and socializing both came to see just how fast that they could run and before we knew it, we grew depressed and cried all the way home, but we couldn't blame anyone but ourselves--because "we" were the ones with the fast lines and quick get-away's on the morning after a loving night. It was us and now we are paying the price.
Please Allow This Simple List
to show you that we, the "Speedy Society of America," have allowed the ones that we are trying to make friends and hopefully have a more enriched relationship as time goes by, but we can never have a deep, satisfying relationship with anyone unless we slow down a bit.
Read on Now and See if I am Right or Just Running my Jaws . . .
If You and Your Loved One -- are sitting in a posh restaurant and while you are dining, your eyes meet the eyes of that pretty girl, but as the eyes meet, her's dart quickly away sending quivers of fear through your body. I mean, you have taken this girl out for three years, but with little signals such as darting eyes, there must be something going on.
When Your Regular -- Saturday night romantic date is listening to you regale her about a big client whom you signed that morning, but she just looks past you and yawns. Boredom? Not so. You have already established that she is a creature of habit--she gets home around 4 p.m. and in bed by 7 p.m., so no wild parties to keep her awake, so facts are facts. Maybe you two need a break from each other.
Cell Phones Can be a Relationship Killer -- because in today's society, where people should be sitting and enjoying themselves, these people have taken to texting and chatting on the phone with co-workers and most of these loving couples are bound to not see each other maybe in the next week. Sad, huh?
Forgetting your Girlfriend's Name -- is natural. Men get nervous, but if this is a common occurrence, buddy, you have a problem. Before you let this relationship go to pieces, consult a doctor.
As Names Being Forgotten -- in the top tip, if your girlfriend is divorced and has one son, "Luke," and you keep forgetting his name, you need to see a doctor. Look at the facts: One child, one name. You can recall those simple numbers.
If You and Your Date Always Fight -- because you, the man part of the relationship, want to see a good movie as opposed to going with your girlfriend to see the ballet, this relationship is "on the skids," an occasional tiff about a movie is one thing, but every weekend?
These are the main Relationship Tips to check to see if you and your significant other are talking about these things, weed-out those poisonous seed that might come up in the "garden of your love" and preventing you from having a happy relationship.
Monday, June 25, 2018_______________________________