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Love has to be ageless
In my hub, " love must be born again," I told a story of a man said that he still lives with his wife because It is his responsiblity not because of love. He said, it is not easy to live with a woman for over 30 years and not get tired of her, especially when you see her daily. That is his own personal opinion because couples have lived together for more than 50 years and still love each other. That does not mean that they was no problems and missunderstandings but it means they know how to handle thier problems.
There is need for love to be born again for it to see the paradise of true lovers. Many marriages and relationships end in divorce or in regrets because things seem not to be the same as it were in the beginning of the relationship. the reasons may include: lack of trust, Infidelity, missunderstandings among others. These things can cause love to fade. Love dies when it fades. Therefore the most important task for lovers is how to keep love alive each day. That is why love must be born again. however, it is even better for love to be ageless because anything that is ageless lives forever.
The fun and joy of love is when it is mutually shared and appreciated. It seems some young people are now afraid of falling in love and getting married because they do not know how it will end. That may be the reason some people choose the idea of single parent so that they do not experince the pains of marriage or relationship.
The most important thing is that it is our duty to keep love alive. This is because there is love in the beginning of any relationship or marriage. So if love was once there, we can do more to make it stay and live forever. Only few lovers have lived happily together and their secret was that they succeed in this task of keeping love alive forever. They know how to make love ageless. It is possible for others to do the same. It is not fair for love to be denied or to suffer pains.
It is time for lovers and couples to prove to others that there is need to love and be loved only that will help others to, once again, trust in the spirit of love and the respect for marriage shall be restored.