ArtsAutosBooksBusinessEducationEntertainmentFamilyFashionFoodGamesGenderHealthHolidaysHomeHubPagesPersonal FinancePetsPoliticsReligionSportsTechnologyTravel

Love Yourself Already

Updated on August 16, 2016

Think back to a time where you were madly in love with someone. Do you remember how you felt during this time? So kind and so kid-like? When you're in love you want to treat your partner the absolute best because their happiness becomes your own. Love is the most selfless act with such a simple and rewarding feeling in return. When the love bug has bitten you don't think twice about wanting to support your significant other. That act of love becomes second nature because success is all we want for them. Before we can experience this mind-blowing love we have to make nice with ourselves first. I know we all have been guilty of this from time-to-time; not giving ourselves the love or care that we deserve. We cannot create a happy space for others if we aren't happy with us. That's right - it’s time to love yourself and become your biggest fan. You should feel like you won the world's championship, which if you think about it, you won through your physical body that gets to check this world out. We have to take care when it comes to our spiritual, physical, and emotional beings, or nothing will be fully accomplished. That means we need to work harder on eating right so our bodies can function as best as it can. To feed our minds with knowledge so we can keep growing and moving. We have to find ourselves, to discover what makes us happy, and what makes us tick and grow. Treating yourself like your biggest fan will help you connect your vibration to the universe. You’re showing the universe that you love and believe in yourself, which will make your desires become more possible in your life. Loving yourself can open a door to peace within you; at least it did for me. I stopped avoiding challenging or scary moments by coping with negative behaviors that I’d grown so close to because I knew it wasn’t helpful to me. When I let my anxiety take over or choose to shut myself off from taking control over my life I can feel how unconnected I become to the universe, my thoughts, focus, and drive. This is certainly one way to show we do not love ourselves. You are on this earth so why not love yourself first; take pride in who you are and where you came from because good things will come in time! This physical phase we get to experience is so short, so let’s stop resisting and starting living with both feet in.

“Talk to yourself like you would talk to someone you love.” - Brene Brown

While you're learning to love yourself, you may find someone that you think is worthy of sharing yourself with but as time goes on the "love is blind" phase starts to fade and the reality of the relationship begins to present itself, showing you that there is so much more that you want and deserve, which brings me back to loving yourself especially when it comes to being in a relationship. I know for me I easily can forget about myself and devote my time and my happiness on my partner, which isn't always a bad thing until I'm the one giving my full heart, standing scared in a committed relationship feeling alone. In those moments we need to remember to be brave and to love ourselves and do not take anything less than what we know we deserve even if that means saying goodbye.

Love yourself Already!


    0 of 8192 characters used
    Post Comment

    No comments yet.


    This website uses cookies

    As a user in the EEA, your approval is needed on a few things. To provide a better website experience, uses cookies (and other similar technologies) and may collect, process, and share personal data. Please choose which areas of our service you consent to our doing so.

    For more information on managing or withdrawing consents and how we handle data, visit our Privacy Policy at:

    Show Details
    HubPages Device IDThis is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons.
    LoginThis is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.
    Google RecaptchaThis is used to prevent bots and spam. (Privacy Policy)
    AkismetThis is used to detect comment spam. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide data on traffic to our website, all personally identifyable data is anonymized. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Traffic PixelThis is used to collect data on traffic to articles and other pages on our site. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized.
    Amazon Web ServicesThis is a cloud services platform that we used to host our service. (Privacy Policy)
    CloudflareThis is a cloud CDN service that we use to efficiently deliver files required for our service to operate such as javascript, cascading style sheets, images, and videos. (Privacy Policy)
    Google Hosted LibrariesJavascript software libraries such as jQuery are loaded at endpoints on the or domains, for performance and efficiency reasons. (Privacy Policy)
    Google Custom SearchThis is feature allows you to search the site. (Privacy Policy)
    Google MapsSome articles have Google Maps embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    Google ChartsThis is used to display charts and graphs on articles and the author center. (Privacy Policy)
    Google AdSense Host APIThis service allows you to sign up for or associate a Google AdSense account with HubPages, so that you can earn money from ads on your articles. No data is shared unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Google YouTubeSome articles have YouTube videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    VimeoSome articles have Vimeo videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    PaypalThis is used for a registered author who enrolls in the HubPages Earnings program and requests to be paid via PayPal. No data is shared with Paypal unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook LoginYou can use this to streamline signing up for, or signing in to your Hubpages account. No data is shared with Facebook unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    MavenThis supports the Maven widget and search functionality. (Privacy Policy)
    Google AdSenseThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Google DoubleClickGoogle provides ad serving technology and runs an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Index ExchangeThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    SovrnThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook AdsThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Unified Ad MarketplaceThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    AppNexusThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    OpenxThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Rubicon ProjectThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    TripleLiftThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Say MediaWe partner with Say Media to deliver ad campaigns on our sites. (Privacy Policy)
    Remarketing PixelsWe may use remarketing pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to advertise the HubPages Service to people that have visited our sites.
    Conversion Tracking PixelsWe may use conversion tracking pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to identify when an advertisement has successfully resulted in the desired action, such as signing up for the HubPages Service or publishing an article on the HubPages Service.
    Author Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide traffic data and reports to the authors of articles on the HubPages Service. (Privacy Policy)
    ComscoreComScore is a media measurement and analytics company providing marketing data and analytics to enterprises, media and advertising agencies, and publishers. Non-consent will result in ComScore only processing obfuscated personal data. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Tracking PixelSome articles display amazon products as part of the Amazon Affiliate program, this pixel provides traffic statistics for those products (Privacy Policy)