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Marriage is apart of life. Life well lived includes marriage.
THE MARITAL ADVENTURE
Marriage is a part of life. Life well lived includes marriage. In dealing with marriage, we are dealing with life for marriage consist of the blending of the lives of two individuals. Marriage is the most intimate of all human relationship. It even takes precedence over the relationship between parent and child. Marriage is so bound with life that it become logically the most important and the most significant aspect of human relationship second only to the relationship between human and God.
Marriage is a very important part of human life that success in life often depends on success in marriage. If marriage is successful, life is beautiful and complete and if it fails, life is dwarfed and crippled. Success and happiness in marriage do not come by happenstance. Success and happiness in marriage depend on the husband and wife giving heed to the laid down principles that ensure the actualization of this expectation. Everybody wants a successful marriage but not everybody is willing to do what it takes to have a successful marriage. marriage is what the marital partners make it to be just like it's been said "as you make your bed so will you lie on it". One of the most challenging problem encountered on earth is the one that is encountered during marital adventure. In other to ensure the rich experience that emanates from a successful marriage, both individual must be willing to pay the price for it. The price is high whereas the payment is everlasting. The price is not measured as many seem to think in dollar and pounds, nor does it consist of a beautiful accommodation with elegant furniture's or cars.
Marriage properly consummated and maintained gives the best insight into the happiness and genue pleasure that existed in the garden of Eden. Marriage is the most important and the best adventure that anyone can embark on but he or she needs to be adequately prepared before taking off. No one ever goes to a battle without adequate preparation and training. An untrained soldier is very dangerous. When preparation meets with an opportunity, the result is always a successful one. The intention of marriage is not to have someone you can abuse or beat as you like, you convert your partner into a punching bag no but to make each other happy. Marriage should be heaven on earth. Many think that things will become worse when they get married but that's not true. Things should become very easy because its now double effort.
Have you seen any man who wants to build a house without first counting the cost and getting to know what it will take him to finish the building from foundation to roofing. Failure to do so will make the project to be abandoned on the way. That's also how we ought to be prepared before getting into marriage. Marriage is not mans ideas, its divine. It came from God. Its meant for comfort. Most of the things you need in life can be achieved when you are happily married. Marriage is heaven on earth and you have every responsibility to make it work. Your marriage can be peaceful and envied by people but you have a role to play in achieving this aim.