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Marriages are made in Heaven, Its true!!
It is always said that the marriages are made in heaven! Its absolutely true for all! We are from India and love marriages are not so common there, like here in UK. I met my husband in the university while doing masters course. We were friends for years and I never imagined to go beyond this. The reason was my dad, he was totally against love marriages. He had already warned me not to think of love!
But love is something which you don't generate but it grows within you and is beyond control!! When we finished our studies and returned back to our places then we realised that we were in love! My husband came to me and proposed me and then we decided to get married. The real thunder came when my dad came to know about this. I was trapped in the house and he said "I have fixed your marriage and you are going to marry with the boy of my choice". He invited the groom and his parents for the marriage ceremony.
This is the story of year 1994. Nothing was left for me accept begging and crying. I was unable to think weather he is doing right or I am wrong. Many thoughts were coming into my mind, like may be my choice is not good, he is not in job yet ( as my husband was student then), may be my dad is thinking for my good etc etc. I wanted to run out of the house but I did not wanted to break my dad's heart. The nature was also against me. I remember that evening, the sky was dark and was raining heavily from the morning. Water was everywhere, no bus,no taxi was running!
I was scared and hopeless. I closed my eyes and prayed to god "Oh God I want to marry DN (name of my husband), I have promised him, how can I marry with my dad's choice". if you think that I am right then please help me!!
When I openned my eyes then I saw the rain has stopped and the sky is becoming clear!! I coul not believe my eyes! Frankly speaking there was no chance of this to happen. Suddenly I realised that the God is with me and I am not wrong. I was confident and full of energy to break all laws. I decided not to marry my dad's choice. I took my things and went out towards railway station,catched the train and reached my husband's place.
I joined PhD and then after two years we got married against my dad's will. Just after two months, DN got a good job in public sector unit. I am a physicyst in UK. We started from zero and now we have everything. I have a cute son. He is now 10 years old.
I believe that my life is a gift of God. He is blessing me continuously. The things which are not in my favour, he don't let it happen for me. He is lightening my path. That is why I always think that mine is a spiritual marriage, guided by the God himself.