Men around here...
The early years..
Came here young and looking for the love or man of my life. What I got was everything, but that. As a kid the guys (like to be expected) did not care much about things. Thought it was all about the next score or the cool thing to do. Not unusual for the age group. Doesn't seem like much has changed and it is getting around. Did not bother me much, at all really, because I knew that was how boy were at that time. But you would think that they would have grown up or am I wrong. Now the fact that it does not bother me does not mean it is right to be happening, but again what do you do.
Middle of my life.
Now it has been a while since all this boy stuff for me. All the drama of who is with who and who broke up with them and so on. I have not been much in the dating scene given some thing going on in my life and not a lot of fish in the water, so to say. But, should I? I wonder sometimes if i should think about dating older then me or not at all. But I want my family. Even though older seems just as stupid as the boys in high school. I do not know where my life is heading who or where I will be when this hub has been written. I do not know what has gone on the past two to three years of my life, but all I can do now if fight when I need too. I am tired of looking for my man because of ignorant men. I am one of those girls that tend to draw the older man to my corner. But the actions from them, is proving no hope for a marriage that I want,
A lesson in life:
Well I am learning quick that most of my boy experience has to do with normal growing up. But, I am also learning that there is a lot of bad experiences that came with my growing up. I am still on look out for Mr. Right, but one thing I did learn is that I am me and I have my own life. That I have to make my decisions (which I do) and learn and take what comes out of them. My husband is out there somewhere and bad relationships are just going to make me stronger and better for him.
Words of Advice
1. Don't let a breakup steer you wrong or keep you down
2. Make the choice you want when it comes to the heart and love ( forget the rules)
3. Make sure it's love (not lust)
Juliet Faith <3