- Gender and Relationships
Is He The Right Guy?
How do you feel when you're with him? This is key. Yes. How do you feel about yourself when you're with him? Okay? Answer! You need to address this issue.Because if you feel you're living a new life that's exciting and wonderful then why should anyone judge that. If you feel great don't hesitate to enjoy what's happening. If you have questions, keep them in mind as you go along your merry way with him. Don't be doormat. Keep you eyes open.
Is he concerned about things that have to do with you when he wasn't before? Is there some judgement there? Are you starting to feel you can't be yourself? Is there something you don't think he'll understand? Do you even care anymore?
All of these questions are necessary when it comes to" hooking up". You can't do it without some long hard thought. If you neglect this aspect of dating you'll be doing it for a long time.
They're are more questions too, like:What does he bring out in you?; What do you wish was different about him?; Is he flexible?; Do you have things in common?; Is he a gentleman?; Can you live responsible lives and hook up when you can?, or is marriage in your future?
Most importantly, is he "the one"? You know. Just like Carrie and Big in the last episode of "Sex in the City, " when they were in Paris. He told her then, amidst the lights from the Eifel Tower, that she was "the one." She wanted to hear that the whole time they had been going out.This was it for her. What do you need to hear? What do you need to see? Think about it.