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My husband molested my daughter
I found out my husband was molesting my daughter, i have left him, my daughter is strong. I think she is stronger than me. On a selfish note i feel more broken than her sometimes. I found out 1 1/2 months after i married him after 10 years of being together. He hadn't touched her for 6 years when i found out and as far as i was concerned we were a happy little family. Most people wont understand when i say i grieve for the life i thought i had. I hate that i now have nothing but the respect of "my" 2 children. "Our" 8 year old daughter hates me for leaving her dad. The pain i feel is horrific. I've known for a year now and have been through a range of different emotions. Denial to myself being the first. My emotions are on a constant rotation. At the moment i am pitying myself. I know i will cop alot of flack for this comment. But i have lost so much. i now live at my parents with 3 kids and have no ense of family. my parents are so differnet to me. And as much as i appreciate their support i also resent the fact that i live under their roof. Our sense of family is gone. I have lost my strenght to be a good parent and my kids are suffering for it. The devastation this man has and will cause us is mind boggling. I can not see any light at the end of our tunnel.