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On a More Personal Front with Windy Grace - The Love Game
I long for the warmth and passion associated with the touch of true love. Very often have I been told by various "love" partners that I'm loved, only to find that the subject knew absolutely nothing about love. They seem to have no concept of what love is at all, tending to think of me in the same aspect that they would think of their mothers. There is NOTHING sexy about that. I don't need another son. I already have three...
To woo me, and possibly become my life partner, I require you to have enough intelligence to know a good thing when it's standing right in front of you; the respect, appreciation, stamina and energy levels to not take me for granted with the knowing that if you do, you will lose my interest quickly; as well, I require someone who is romantically available enough to comfort and reassure me in times of great pain and turmoil rather than constantly being a douche to me and expecting me to still be here kissing their feet...
I will give you at the least 100% effort and I am the type who just may be found kissing the feet of he who has become a god in my eyes. However, I do not have "Dumbass" tattooed on my forehead so you can stop insulting my intelligence, wasting my valuable time and go on about your business...I like to think I have a little more than just common sense!
If you think of love as a game, I'm not the chica you want to play with. I have learned from the best and I will eat you for breakfast!
I'm just saying...Be real when you approach a goddess; because if you're not, someone else will be.
Like Eminem says, "Hold your nose, 'cuz here comes the cold water..."
It has become quite obvious to me over the past 36 years that I am far better off alone than with someone who wants to clip my wings, rob me of my dreams and punish me with a death far worse than actual death...Spiritual and emotional death.
The fact that I have sense enough to protect myself from people like them now can be attributed to the battle scars that I carry. Though they tried, they could not kill me. Though I may have fallen for a while and had to struggle to get back up, I got back up and fell back down again and now I'm here standing again...
Love takes stamina, which is why you seem so dead and yet I'm still alive. I'm a ninja, honey...It's going to take a strong man to be with me. I actually have a mind and a plan to get what I want out of this life. If not with me, you're against me; and there are too many great people who are already with me, and some who have been there for my entire life, for me to allow someone into my life who has foul, deceitful intentions. I simply don't have time for the nonsense...I've too much work to do.
I choose happiness and I choose to place these strokes on college ruled sheets of paper with a black Bic pen as a large part of my therapy...Have no idea what I'm talking about? We'll never make it...
I'm not perfect and will never claim to be, but you are in no place to point fingers; because you know you won't like it when I start pointing back.
I am a very passionate person and will accept no less in a love partner. This is very important: If you aren't passionate enough to keep up with me, I don't feel sorry for you. I will try to get you to come out of your shell as long as I can stand it and then I'm out...Someone else will snatch it up if you want to waste time taking it for granted. And, I'm done with excuses in this category. I'm in my prime. Thank you.
That is not to say that I will stoop to the level of being with someone who only wants to play. You cannot play with a Virgo woman. We are not toys for little boys. You must be a full grown man and capable of honestly loving another human being other than, well, your penis...
I do not give the time of day to liars, posers, wannabes, jerks, known cheaters or sleepwalkers. They've had their chance and have given me a great education...Now, I'm past it.
On a brighter note, there is no one in this world that I do not love. There is no one that I do not feel compassion in my heart for. This Hub is more or less a calling out to whomever reads it to make sure that you know what love means and are at least committed to trying to show it before you ever consider letting the words "I love you" come out your mouth. If you say it and don't mean it, you're a liar. If you say it and don't show it, odds are the one you "love" won't know it and will eventually move on even if that's not what they want to do. Sometimes, situations make you have to do things, make decisions that really hurt. I think we need to become more aware of what we are doing to people. Are we making them smile, or are we making them hurt? Are we beating them down, or building them up? If you love someone, you know what you should be doing; if you don't know what you should be doing, you should be trying to figure it out.
There's enough pain in the world...
It's time to bury the hatchet.
Love & Light,
Windy Grace <3