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One-Time Special Treat
Certain Days To Get Laid In Certain Ways
It shouldn't be specific times of the year in which partners, lovers, and spouses satisfy each other. A lot of couples wait until birthdays and special holidays to perform certain, sexual acts. This is usually called, 'the one-time fantasy deal'. In other words, you really have to catch your significant other in the mood for some big, pleasurable things to happen. It can be rewarding and at the same time, sexually frustrating.
Having sex on a regular basis can open opportunities for that extra spice. Something as simple as foreplay can lead into, which should mostly come first is that pleasant stimulation, orally. The use of hands and fingers along with a variable of the mouth can find hot spots especially ones on the body that was there already, but overlooked. The adventure of getting busy in public adds more fun to the idea of doing it in many places with the challenge of being caught. Then from there, its a naughty decision to stop or keep going... Even a trip to an adult store to get a flick, toys, lingerie, and romantic games can spread sensuous activity daily.
The problem is most people are inhibited of their sexual nature. It may take some serious convincing to get those particular folks' drive going behind closed doors. Some are afraid to come out of their shell often, because they don't want to be looked at as a freak or plain nasty. Then you have a few who claim they're extremely freaky, but when in a personal, intimate conversation or behind closed doors, they renege on fulfilling a need and want of sensation. Just the words, 'oral sex' can make one feel disgusted and scared to touch or kiss another.
Probably, this is the reason most relationships and marriages are sexless today. The sexual communication and compatibility could be dead. A discussion of turn-ons and turn offs is not in effect. A person will settle to be teased, than to actually be pleased. Then, it can lead into infidelity on someone's behalf as that saying goes, "What you won't do, somebody else will...!"
Sex is a big part of life. It should be enjoyable at least. Definitely, sex is an important factor in a relationship that is pretty much more than friendship on a personal level. For those people who get offended when sex comes up and have children and partners, one has to wonder, how did your kids get here and how do you keep your man or woman satisfied during some quality time...? There's no escaping it!
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