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"Open Communication Is the Reason Relationships last forever"
"Open Communication Is the reason Relationships last forever"
If you come from a family that talks all the time about everything, then you're in good company. Since, it helps us communicate with each other about the issues that we have problems within our lives. although, many relationships don't last because they don't have the glue of communication that binds them together. A relationship without communication always comes to an abrupt end. When we were young mom taught us to always talk about the problem. To put it on the table and hash it out until we come up with a solution that makes everyone happy. Only then can anyone move on to the next steps in their lives. One Sided relationships will not work out. If only one person is trying to solve the problem because it takes two people to come up with a solution that will make both people content. You really have a big problem, if one of you are communicating and the other one is not. It makes it hard for the both of you to get on the same page. We have to realize that relationships comes with baggage and problems. We all have to deal with it right away, or it will soon destroy your relationship since the problems doesn't go away.
In any relationship the lines of communication must always be open to keep the backbone of the relationship strong and loving. If you and your mate don't get together and solve the issues at hand they will turn into a headache and a heartbreak for the both of you. I know there are wonderful people in relationships that hasn't been taught the skills of open communication and if this is you or the one you love. You're already in trouble. I'm not saying it's impossible to have a good relationship. I'm saying you will have to work at communicating your feelings and emotions harder than some that already have the communication skills to start out with. The thing that's so important in any relationship. Is having the person you love to feel the same way about open communication. Having this kind of communication makes you love, cherish and respect your mate. Most of all, understand them and feel completely comfortable in telling them exactly how you fell without feeling intimidated. Now, if you have a relationship with great communication skills, then count your blessings because your relationship will be one of a few that will last a life time since you both kept the lines of communications open between the two of you. Your relationship will prosper and grow because of it.
Benny Faye Douglass(C) Copy Right 2013