- Gender and Relationships
PART 1 Powerful Attraction Energy to draw into you the Relationship of your Dreams’
Attract the boy or girl of your dreams; have the relationship YOU want!
Pay attention, this really works if you apply the principles outline. But make sure you also read PART 2: By following the ink below!
Many folk seem to have problems creating the kind of blissful relationship they long to desire, instead, some folk always attract the same kind of personality from a partner whereas their relationship eventually ends with tears because of mistreatment & heartache from their once thought loved one!
But YOU personally, may have something to do with why this happens more than you can imagine!
You must know the kind of person you are before you can attract the kind of person you want & this information concerning attracting the right kind of boyfriend or girlfriend will help you consider the factors for picking up the most sexiest & considerate date to start your relationship with.
And you can sure bet that there is someone ESPECIALLY FOR YOU OUT THERE!
But you got to change your ways from the very bottom of your heart to be able to draw this personality unto you.
The scenario goes something like this……
We are all creatures of energy!
Many of you whom have read my articles would have heard me state this many times before!
So how does this apply to dating & relationships & attracting your ideal girlfriend or boyfriend?
It goes something like this…
What you truly believe about yourself…
How you truly perceive yourself….
How you carry yourself in this world….
What you truly feel you deserve out of life & out of others & what you feel you are truly capable of providing….
& more so! HOW YOU TREAT OTHERS…..
Especially within your relationships….and I mean….
ANY RELATIONSHIP YOU MAY BE INVOLVED IN….
ANY RELATIONSHIP or ANY DATE….
At any time in your life!
Your partner will truly believe and perceive this of you as well.
So if you mistreat yourself & don’t think highly of yourself……
THEY WILL AUTOMATICALLY PICK UP ON THE PERSON THAT YOU ARE.
Cool isn’t it?
& now you can learn how to Attract the ideal girlfriend or boyfriend that YOU choose & not the other way around!
Mind power to Attract your Lover
But before you can pull the man or woman you want you must first look inside & bring up & face up to what you DO NOT want out of a relationship especially as your choice could eventually lead unto marriage!
You’ve heard the old adage of….face up to & stand up to your fears & remorse’s of your life so that these feelings can finally disintegrate leaving you free & open to attract something or someone new?
And if you like this idea….Please read on….
You may consider taking a deeper closer look inside & searching for positive perceptions of how you can become someone different if you chose to especially concerning not just your personal values but also the values of others no matter how an ex partner made you feel in your past relationships?
Maybe you been devalued by your ‘once lover’ even many times before & been kicked into the curb on a rainy night with nowhere to go & no one to speak to that truly understands the crap you are feeling right now.
Or maybe you’re reading this with the notion that you have been trying but failing, to find a decent lover to share your time with?
Life’s a bummer sometimes!
But read what I got to say…
It may help you….
To have any of these positive perceptions about yourself concerning self respect & your worth to another, especially within a dating partner…
You must definitely change your way of thinking about yourself…first.....
For the better!
But wait there’s more….
Because this is just step one of your two way metamorphosis from a measly little moth into a vibrant sexually valued guy or doll that I know you can be….
You just got to convince yourself that you are a sexually valued creature that is here to be pleased by another & you have what it takes to please another too.
With total honesty & true sincerity!
You must change your way of thinking about not only yourself…
But towards others as well….
Even if they’ve done you wrong love wise….
Especially if they've cheated on you in the past.
Otherwise YOU WILL NEVER PROGRESS ONWARDS & find your TRUE LOVE!
And this will be your penultimate step to free your mind to attract the one you want.
Did you hear what I said? Free your mind so you can attract the one you want!
Otherwise you will more than likely keep attracting the same kind of sort that you have been previously.
And this isn’t good.
But you got to do some work first….
& this work begins inside your own mind…
As you know, before you can even begin to portray positive high values into the mind of your ‘new intended lover’ about YOU you must instill these perceptions into your own mind first!
So they become your very persona…
Your very energy that you radiate outwards, subconsciously, & even consciously…..
Of a highly valued sexual human being…..Just like you were born to be!
To be pleased by another & to have the best that life has to offer you….
It doesn’t matter how you look!
There is always someone for everyone even if you did think you found them before & your relationship hasn’t worked previously!
It doesn’t matter how others make you feel.
It’s how you think about yourself inside that really shows on the outside!
Others will perceive this outer energy that you will portray from your interior perceptions of yourself!
And you must realize you have the value to also please another too.
Are you with me so far?
Let’s begin with step 1…..
We are all creatures of energy & our energy is created from within our mind. The way we see, or think about ourselves, & of others & of our life situations in general will create our perceptions & especially our emotions….
And this is how we feel within ourselves which radiates outward of ourselves….
& these emotions are responsible for our
Energy created by our very emotional feelings inside vibrating invisibly & others around us…
(Or even far away! But that is another article.)
Will pick up on & response to ‘as such.’
I hope I’m making myself clear here?
We are going to start with step 1 as this is the most important factor for freeing yourself ready for the attraction process to kick in.
Eradicating negative emotions & perceptions of you & your ex partner!
Before you can attract the ideal partner you must think deep & search inside yourself & face up to all of the negative aspects & immature actions of any past experiences within your relationships you have encountered previously.
And this will mean taking notice of anything you have done wrong, as well as all of those things that your partner had done to hurt you too.
You will find emotional traits such as….
You will have mistrusted, hated & blamed them. And you will have been hurt!
And the opposite applies too! You may have been mistrustful towards your partner too & you may have hurt them?
This is why this article discusses ‘Knowing who YOU are so that you can sort yourself out.’
And because of these negative emotions of past relationships your ego will more than likely run your new relationships that you may encounter in the future so this means you will hold perceptions of….
Onto your new lover before you even drop your guard to allow them the opportunity to be their real selves.
Strange isn’t it? But it’s true!
Because of your past relationship encounters you will automatically hold perceptions that….
Ready for this…..?
EVERYBODY IS THE SAME.
There we are I said it now…
And the best part is, you don’t even know you’re doing it!
And it is your EGO responsible for this.
We are all creatures of energy, so your ego shouldn’t even come into the equation at all?
We are born & then toddlers & we perceive the simple things of life without judgment first & this is how we learn along the way….
But now were all grown up we learn to perceive experiences of past that we tend to HOLD ONTO which has something to do with our EGO but the only problem is, our ego can prevent us from having the very best that life has to offer us.
DON'T DO THIS TO YOURSELF!
Almost like you are carrying a grudge….without even realizing it? About your new love! Even before you have met them!
Spooky isn’t it?
Here is what I want you to do: take your time to relax & get connected to the quietness of your mind.
Search deep inside & bring up any bad relationship experiences you have ever encountered, one at a time, bad relationship experiences that you have done to others & that others have done to you….
Now bring to mind & face up to each & every one of these mishaps…& drop the blame!
It’s as simple as that!
Know that you want to improve your future so drop the blame & let go of the hurt.
Drop any blame towards yourself…
And drop any blame towards your partner/s.
Realizing that what have happened previously there must have been a cause for it one way or another.
But it doesn’t matter now. That was in the past. The past has long gone.
Even if it was your fault or theirs…it doesn't matter so drop the ego & the blame of yourself & of them & realize it DID happen!
And this is the bigie so please understand…
You, & I, and everyone else here on this planet….
Are here to learn from every single experience to make each & every one of us better for the future, no matter what….
Now let go of….
Only to realize it was the past never to be repeated ever again….DROP THE EGO & FREE YOU’RE MIND!
Don’t punish your new love! They are not your old love!
Don’t punish yourself! You are now facing up to what you have done wrong & you are willing to let it all go to better your next relationship!
FREE YOU’RE MIND!
Please spend time & get this sorted first, you will know when you have achieved because you will feel a heavy weight lift from your shoulders & you will become more calm & at piece with yourself.
You may even find that you are beginning to create attraction from others around you so please take note of these messages & remember why this is!
Let me know your take on this situation & if you’re into relationships don’t forget to read my upcoming articles on relationships especially part two of this series? Sign HERE & get instant updates & even create your own articles for profit!
All the best & happy relationships! Dale
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