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People chnage!!!!

Updated on April 12, 2013

Trust In Yourself

Why do people change???

Could it be an event, a moment of truth or simply a word.I know for sure that one second can change your life forever...In this case, things are not in our hands, and depend 100% on circumstances, and act of God. But what about simpler things such as; walking away from your own true friend or getting upset all the sudden with no explanation. Based on my observation, and my personal opinion I think that people are so delicate, and highly sensitive just like a candle in the wind, any word can affect their judgment, and sometimes drastically change their opinion or prior views. They tend to go with the flow!!!! This particular point can sometimes cost us a healthy relationship, and lose someone dear from our contact list. On the other hand, Some people have a strong will, and depend on their own mind to take a certain decision. These individuals are very few in this world. Nothing can change their opinion or heart when it comes to accept or even reject a certain one or thing. I believe strongly that their kind have enough faith, internal instinct, and will to carry on without any interference or fear.

They're driven by concrete evidence, and the idea of seeing is believing. But not everything you don't see is absent or have the fact of non existence. Do you get what I am saying??? What I mean: "Faith is stronger than any words or actions".

The question is "How can we build the issue of trust between people when a word can move them?"... Does this mean that some individuals are shallow, week, and have no faith! How can we judge???? Of course, we can come up with a theory to make things appear less difficult for you my dear readers... Trust the ones you knew over years...Give the trust to those who deserve holding it. Nurture trust like a child, and over the years trust will be stronger. You'll feel safer in no time. Trust starts at heart, your inner instinct will help you decide whether to give birth to a baby called "TRUST" or NOT. Just have FAITH.

Do you agree???? Let me know what you think.. I'll be waiting for your comments...

In conclusion, you must always trust yourself in order to trust others.. You should listen to your heart for judgement, and have faith things might become clear instead of holding the word Fear...

Gladys Karam

3Angels Power Film Production INC


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      3angelspower 6 years ago from Cornwall, Ontario

      Dear Ahorseback,

      I agree, people have no more patience, tolerance or even understanding to analyze each other's need. We tend to build high walls instead of breaking them down to be closer to each other. The communication is always in question, and need for repairs. Unfortunately, life like this becomes unbearable, and difficult faster than before. We are going somewhere, and that place is scary my friend... We better slow down, and take a breather from time to time maybe things will be different.

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      ahorseback 6 years ago

      We have become hypersensitive in modern day culture , we have no patience , no resolve no need for understanding each other. We no longer greet each other on the front porches of America on Sundays . We , as families have circled the wagons and are protecting our own by all costs. And , for political correctness , we are soo easily offended by the least amounts of debate. I don't know where we are going. But we're going there fast. Great discussion hub!

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      3angelspower 6 years ago from Cornwall, Ontario

      I'm glad to see someone agrees with my theory...

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      Henry Gromek 6 years ago

      Well u are right u can get upset in less than a nano second. How many times that happen to me. But as fast u get upset u do tend to do a turn around just as fast. You can say its the human thing to do. As for faith it can be part of the equation also. Sometimes judging can be wrong and more like shaking it off. Its depends on your point of view. As for trust, its a matter of what u believe in or who you believe in.