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Positive Relationships in friendships or romance

Updated on August 4, 2017

Happy Relationships

 Think about what you want to get out of a relationship. You decide who you think is acceptable and you decide if they meet your standard.

Positive thinking is crucial for happiness in life and relationships. Being positive makes a person stronger, happier and healthier. Positive thinking with motivation and enthusiasm helps in securing a long term stable relationship.

Happy relationships have trust. If you have no trust in your relationship, you can't be happy in your relationship.

Time plays a vital part in your relationship. You can make your relationship strong and happy by dedicating your time to it. Romantic partners need private time. Do things that allows intimate time together like picnics or walks in the park, movies, trips or just quiet time. Work together toward common interests. You can find happiness in small gestures or gifts as a form of expression.

There has to be a strong amount of commitment for a happy relationship. Adjustments are necessary and one must overlook many small things. It isn't important that your likes and dislikes should match up to hundred percent.

Monotony and misunderstadings creep into relationships all the time. Always try to have a positive approach towards your relationship. A positive approach in confronting conflicts helps the partner to inculate positive attitude. Try to adjust to every situation, overlook and forgive, let go of things which aren't important, and be flexible in your decisions. Change of perception or thinking about something more positive can prevent stressful feelings.


Nurturing a meaningful relationship means seeing all life lessons as positive if we apply what we learn, avoid what doesn't work, and eliminate them from the relationship.

There are many advantages of positive attitude. Developing positive attitude helps in overcoming stress, increases self esteem, confidence, and makes a person more dynamic. Choose the attitude you will embrace for the day. Invest your energy in the positive present moment.

My book Positive Romance by Rudy Lopez, available on any major online bookstore, looks at all matters of the heart with encouraging, compromising attitudes. Sometimes needs are only wishful, hopeful desires.


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      peacenhim 8 years ago

      This is a very insightful and uplifting Hub with excellent advise!! Relationships, especially a marriage is a partnership like any other and has to be nurtured and shaped to perfection like refining silver by fire. If there isn't trust, which is the fundamental basis of a good marriage then the house, ((partnership)) will crumble. Thanks for the great advise!

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      poetlorraine 8 years ago

      lovely hub