- Gender and Relationships
Question for the ladies
Bit of back ground to start with
I’m been divorce now for some time now and been out of the dating game for some time, gave it up as a bad job. I’ve been on those dating site and in my view, waste of my time, I can tell you. All one wants in life to love someone and the same back, someone to come home to, someone to have a chat to, and someone to..... you get the picture. No I’ve never been lucky in love, maybe I have two heads which I don’t know about or maybe 3 eyes. Never mind it’s not bothered me that much, and besides I’ve got a costumed to living on my own, but as you know we men are always on the lookout for that nice lady!!
This is where my story begins
I went away for Christmas and had a wonderful time, now whenever I go somewhere I have to make sure that I take my trusty shaver. I have sensitive skin and I’ve used everything under the sun to stop soreness and redding of the skin after I’ve shaved. I came across a shaver that really works for me and had it now for the past 4 years. Like I say I take it everywhere I as I can’t or wouldn’t like to use anything else.
On my return after Christmas I had a few days before going into work and never thought of having a shave as I don’t shave every day. The day came to go back into to work and time for a shave. PANIC, no shaver, wasn’t in my bag, wasn’t in the bathroom, wasn’t anywhere at home. I’d left it where I was staying over Christmas, no problem it would go in the post and I should have it within a few days, but in the mean time I would have to go without having a shave, which sorted me to be honest.
By now I hadn’t had a shave for 4 days and my stubble was looking long and a bit of a mess, but not to worry in a few days my shaver would be here and I would have a shave, no problem. Well as the week wore on and my beard was growing longer people at work kept asking when was I going to shave, “Oh when I get my shaver back” I replied. Before my last shift at work the postman came along with my shaver and I though, stuff it, been to work all week and not shaven so why bother now. I would have a shave when I home or before going out.
Should it stay or should it go?
Well I was in the canteen and a lady college shout to me “Hi sexy man” wow, never been called sexy in my life, okay maybe it was a bit of fooling around on her part or was it the beard, did she like the beard look? I’ve never thought of it before and it was only after wards. Had I been doing it wrong all these years, because a few days later a got a similar comment. I had decided not to have a shave but instead grow a beard after the first comment, never really had one before, and only ever gone without shaving for about 4 days at the most. So do women like a man with a beard is my big question. Okay I guess it down to personal taste as with most things in life
I’ve enclosed 2 photos, maybe not the best photos in the world, one with and one without a beard, which do you like the most. Thank you for taking your time to read this
For a bit of fun
Which do you like the most?
It’s been some months since I posted this and I think it’s time for an update. First I would like to thank everyone who voted in the poll, interesting to see the voting. Most will be pleased to find that I did indeed shave off my beard mainly because it was getting warm and started to itch. It was interesting while I had my beard in the way people reacted towards me, people who wouldn’t normally speak did, which I did find really strange. I did notice also that more ladies chatted to me this again was interesting. It seems at the moment in the UK that beards are in fashion and maybe I should re-grow my beard. No I don’t think I will, well not the time being, I did enjoy having a beard, but only in winter and not during the summer months. What did surprise me was how long it took to dry after showering and how wet it felt when I was out walking on cold days.
Once again thank you for viewing my work