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Questions To Ask A Girl You Like On A Date

Updated on January 13, 2017
Asking questions is crucial
Asking questions is crucial

Questions to Ask a Girl You Like

Asking quality questions is key to any relationship and date. Asking questions shows your interest and allow you to learn more about the girl who you like. However, asking the wrong kind of questions can come across as creepy or awkward. Below are some various types and examples of questions to help you getting to know this girl that you like.

Random Questions to Ask a Girl

Random questions can assume any form and their main purpose is to start a conversation with someone and get to know them better. Random questions can involve anything so long as they are capable of generating a conversation or debate. If you need some random questions to ask a girl you like, have a look at the ones listed below.

  1. Do you believe in love at first sight?
  2. Where do you work now? Are you likely to swap your current job with another in the near future?
  3. Do you go for holidays? Where?
  4. What do you like/hate about members of the opposite sex?
  5. Have you ever wished to be a man? Why?
  6. Are you likely to go back to class and further your education?
  7. What are your plans for the future? Are there goals you have set? Do you see them being achieved within the time you have set?
  8. Are you a republican or democrat? Whom do you think will win the coming election?
  9. If you were to switch nationality, which country will you have chosen?
  10. Which language that you would like to learn that you currently don’t know?

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Good Questions to Ask a Girl

Good questions are those that tend to be friendly or polite in nature. They are neither funny nor awkward. They are normally asked in the initial stage of the relationship when you are getting to know one another. They are not hard hitting but are instead simple and result in a not complicated answer. So if you want some good questions to pose to a girl you like that you have just met, see the following;

  1. Where did you grow up as a child? Which school did you attend?
  2. Where does your family live now? How many sisters and brothers do you have?
  3. Which career did you want to pursue when you were a child?
  4. What's your dream vacation?
  5. Who is your role model in life?
  6. Should you be motivated, encouraged or inspired in order to do great things in life?
  7. Do you think the world is just? Is everybody getting his due rights?
  8. Other than your parents, who is the most important person in your life?
  9. Do you believe in ghosts? Do they exist?


Be extremely thoughtful when asking questions. No girl wants to feel that you are interrogating her. Be comfortable with a few pauses and silences as well. Girls don't like the pressure to always be talking and responding to your demands. Let the conversation flow naturally, but have a few of these questions ready to go at any time.

The more practice you have, the more comfortable you will be with letting the conversation progress organically. Additionally, not all of these questions will be appropriate for all dates and all situations. The real key to all of this is being interested in the other person and anxious to find out more about her. Once she speaks, LISTEN, show your interest, and add to the conversation. Good luck and have fun!


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