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"Refuse To Be The Other Women"
:Refuse To Be The Other Women"
"Refuse To Be The Other Women"
In today's world; cheating is normal for most men and even some women; that doesn't and respect each other. Most married men aren't content with just having a wife; he wants another women he can play with, outside of his marriage. any women that get involved with a married man; is asking for trouble. We do have some women would rather have your man, than to find her own, and these are the women that don't want a committed relationship. A women that except being the other women ; apparently doesn't have a lot going for her self, or she would know she could do better for her self: than being second best. I'm sorry, second best has never been enough for me; because I'm a greedy women, when it comes to my man, I want all of his attention, I want the whole enchilada or nothing.
Today's women. shouldn't never lower their standards to being second best for anyone; because we deserve God's best in a man. Women make mistakes in becoming a mistress or girlfriend to a guy that already has a wife and become a second best women. There are some women that look for a married man with means to get involved with; so they can financially get what they want out of life, but it's not worth the trouble: you will encounter by being the other women. Being the other women has more disadvantages; than advantages, your advantage in being the other women will be all the passionate love making you can handle and maybe a certain amount of financial gain.
Your disadvantages is that you want be able to get a commitment from him because he's already taken; yout he don't have a future to look forward to with this man, but he wants monopolize you your time and actions. You take chances with diseases; and pregnancies every time you sleep with him, because you don 't know whether or not his wife is faithful. You are also taking a chance that his wife want find out about you and her husbands affair with you. If you're women with morale's and a conscience; you can't let yourself become involved with this type of relationship, because you already know it wrong in Gods eyes and you're not going to be able to live with yourself. If you want to be truly happy; you will find yourself a godly unattached, loving man that you can maybe have a future with.
Believe me, being the other women is not a logical position to be in; unless you're a women that doesn't care about anything or anybody, including your self. Like I said; being the other women has never been an option for me,because I always loved being number one, in my mans life. Listen women, as long as you're tied to a married man; you have no future to look forward to with a single man of your dreams. But this the penalty when; when you let yourself become involved with a man that's already taken. None of us should be so needy; that we except what ever we can get, because there are better men out there for us, if we just will take our time and look for something good for us. Women don 't disrespect yourself and God by sleeping around with another women 's husband have enough guts to go find your own. Single women you deserve better than a married can give you. You are a precious commodity, than any single man would be please to have by his side.
Benny Faye Douglass