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Relationship Advice On How To Keep a Woman Happy

Updated on November 9, 2014
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Do you really know how to make your woman happy? If not then this hub is for you!

One thing many guys don’t understand is that women want them to be themselves. We want you to be confident in yourself and who you are! If you run around trying to please us by being someone you are not, we can sense it and we don’t like it. We feel bad, we feel hurt, we feel angry, or we feel some other emotion that is not happy. We are happy when you are happy and being a confident you.

The Little Things Matter

You’ve probably heard that the little things matter, but do you really get it? Little things are things that you remember that we don’t expect or do that we don’t expect. Remembering to buy her favorite chocolate bar is a little thing. Holding the door open for a woman is a little thing. There are many little things that you do that add up to women being really happy with you. Don’t ignore the little things!

Appreciate Your Woman

Let your woman know that you appreciate her and you will make her happy. Thanking her for the things she does means you take notice of the things she does, and that makes a woman happy. Even the little things about her that you are grateful for should be pointed out to her.

Make Her Feel Like The Hottest Woman Around!

If you want your woman to be happy with you then make her feel like you only got eyes for her, because she is so damn hot! Don’t look at other women when you are with her, and don’t be afraid to show other women that you are with her. She will take notice of that and love it! Tell her how sexy she is and give her the once over with your eyes. Make her feel hot and she will feel good about herself.

Become a Good Lover

So many men don’t know how to please their woman in bed. Some women don’t bother showing men what they want in bed, and some just give up after trying to show their man too much what to in bed. Pleasing her in bed is as important as pleasing her outside of bed, and honestly guys…she is the woman you are going to be with so why not take the time to learn how to become a good lover and really pleasure her and make her happy. All it takes it some learning, practicing, and more practicing. That’s not a bad thing!

Is Your Woman Happy? She Can Be!
Is Your Woman Happy? She Can Be!

Make Her Laugh

A woman loves a man who can make her laugh. Women tend to be happier with men who have a good sense of humor than men who can’t take a joke very well. This is the secret of all those men that don’t have the typical looks of an attractive man. They know how to make a woman laugh and feel good around them, and therefore they know how to make her happy.

Share Some Common Interests

You can’t hate everything she loves and expect her to be happy. Women like to share and to experience things with their man that they love. You may have to bite the bullet and find something that she loves to incorporate into your life. You will make her happy by trying to understand and be a part of her passions, interests, or beliefs.

Don’t Cause Conflict With Friends and Family

You don’t have to love her best friend or her mother, but you should respect them. If you are constantly causing conflict with the people she loves, or even just talking negatively about them, then you are causing stress on her by making her feel bad about the people she is closest to. Don’t talk bad about them all the time. Let her know that they aren’t your favourite people, but that because she loves them you will get along with them.

Keep The Relationship Spark Alive

Once the relationship becomes comfortable you may be tempted to fall into a comfortable routine. Relationships require constant upkeep and attention. If you want to grow even closer with every passing day then you have to value the relationship and always work on it. If you stop putting effort towards making the relationship better then you have nowhere to go but downhill. If your woman is begging you to spend time with her or work on relationship issues then you better pay attention! Or else it could be the beginning of the end.

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      Kari 5 years ago from Alberta, Canada

      Hey Dan, very true. I see it all the time as well.

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      Dan Barfield 5 years ago from Gloucestershire, England, UK

      Very true words! I am in a very happy relationship and find myself comparing the way we are together with the way others around us are. Those in failing or failed relationships are always trying to force a change in either themselves or their partner. They are not confident enough to just be themselves. Internal balance must come before balance in the relationship I guess.