- Gender and Relationships
How to Deal with a Crush on a Married Man
Trade The Crush for A Love That's Plush
A Crush Is Infatuation
Worship It Out Of Your System
A person with such a crush: male or female should get out while they can channel that crush in another direction. It can be done because it has been done. Don't be left with a stigma that will ruin your reputation. You must 1st be in control of prioritizing. Under God, you come 1st, (love and respect yourself) don't allow your feelings to go further than mutual with the subject person. Please understand that this is the reason for God in our lives; to regulate or hearts and emotions so that we don't get hung off into the wrongness of life and that's where the crush holder is. Right away, being a believer in the principals of God, if I see an attractive lady whom I may tend to have a crush on and she is married then a signal hits me that says “she’s married, there is someone else that is better for you” and I accept that as sheer truth.
A Good Message Here
Seek A Love Of Your Own
The only feeling that a married man can give is temporary satisfaction. As I mentioned in a recent hub, we should focus on “Do You Really Know How To Love.” Expending energy, having a crush on someone will only lead to the heartbreak of someone perhaps, you, the crush holder. Most married men stay with their wives and deal with a mistress or girlfriend on the side. Surely, it feels good in the beginning but it is not right. There should be guilty consciences on both sides however; I will deal with one side and the big question asked in the title here.
Having a crush on someone else's husband make's her deceiving makes her short of reaching her full, greatest potential as long as the heart is as wicked. Obviously, she needs something to distract her from thinking of him. I’m going to put this phrase out; for every good married man there are two good single ones available as well, somewhere.
By Changing Your Frame Of Mind
- Allow your mind to be changed through spirituality (putting God first and you second.
- You must remain faithful and obedient to the principals of God
- You must make yourself more available to good-natured, single men
- Love and respect yourself to the point of accepting through God the man (your own) that is appealing to you and your morals
I must think of the fact that I would not want another man poking my wife although; I do not mind her attractiveness to other men. There is not only a cliché but fact that what goes you do can comeback to haunt you like, when you settle down and get married then a woman can have a crush on your husband and lure him away from you. You would not want that so make an effort to rid yourself of the crush. You can also, go to the gym, exercise at home, outside and avoid watching sexual enhancing television programs as well as listening to sexual arousing music. This is serious and it’s going to take all this ad more to keep your mind away from him.
You are someone else’s queen. You must prepare yourself for that person while you still have oats to float.