- Gender and Relationships
How to Say I Love You-Without Saying a Word
All You Need Is Love- The Beatles believed it, so should you!
Say I Love You- But Don't Tell Me You Love Me...
The following hub is a rewrite of the original hub. The content has changed to abide by hubpages rules and regulations. The original hub has been published to the examiner.com and is now in their arcives and can not be removed. I hope you enjoy this updated and newer version of Say I love you without saying a word. .............HC PORTER
Actions are more powerful than words with the effect that in pure silence, a single touch can lift you to the sky or take you to your knees. As much as I love words-when it comes to love it is often what is unspoken that can melt your heart and make you feel the truth. As human beings, we often feel and show we care, far before we ever speak it. For one reason or another, we feel once we say something we are finalizing it and opening ourselves up for disaster or hurt or contrary to this, we feel closure and complete. When at the start of a love affair, the first time that we are told or say ‘I Love You’, it makes our knees weak and the world stop. We are able to end fights, get out of tepid waters and sooth fears by whispering those words to our lover. Fast Forward five years later and when the same situation that was once so easily resolved with words is abruptly interrupted by I Love You, eyes roll and are followed with the following words, SHOW ME… How do we show someone we love them? Can we truly make another person feel our love without ever saying I love you? If you can’t, you better learn because showing I someone you care for them is far more meaningful than saying it.
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My husband and I have had the best of times together. I love you once flew from our mouths freely and with admiration and support for the other. Two kids. Two full time jobs and a mortgage along with all that applies later, we are up two our ears with words that don’t mean a damn thing when you break down the stress of day t o day life. I love you is something that we now say as we enter or exit the house or hang up the phone. I love you might as well be If you are late tonight and I have to put the kids to bed alone, you are sleeping on the couch. Do we still love one another? Yes…more than ever. But our love has changed, and now showing how much love we have for one another has much more importance than saying that we love one another.
So how do you say I love you without actually saying it? It depends on who you are and your relationship. My husband tells me that he loves me when he gives the kids a bath and has them in bed before I get home. He tells me he loves me when he loads the car seats into my car the night before they need to be in there so I don’t have to do it myself. My husband lets me know he loves me when he restrains himself from giving me grief about having to work late because he knows that I am doing it for us.
I show him I love him by not forgetting to buy his sodas at the grocery store. I show him I love him when I wash, dry and then hang up in a color coordinated fashion all of his clothes. I show him I love him by taking the kids away, because I know that they are driving him insane and he cant get his work completed with them asking, Daddy, Daddy…come look at what I did…”.
A friend of mine said he would show his wife that he loved her by making the bed every morning before he left for work. He explained to me that he would fluff her pillow and while fluffing her pillow would do so with the thought that he wanted to do this for her so she would have a good nights sleep when she laid down. She would show his her love by asking him to call her on his way home when he would work late at night, so she could hear about his day and also keep him awake because she knew how tired he was and she didn’t want him to fall asleep while driving.
Sometimes saying I love you is simply, listening to the other person cry after they have lost someone close to them. Sometimes saying I love you means that you are not able to get your way or do exactly what you wanted; because you know that the other person will not enjoy your original plans. Sometimes saying I love you is being okay with sleeping in a pink floral bedroom with pastels and flowers surrounding you, because that is what make your partner happy. Sometimes saying I love you is sitting through a NASCAR Race, bored as hell, with a smile on your face.
Love may not always be fireworks, nor does it have to be. Love is just as easily defined as being a single flame that guides you through the dark until you arrive home. Patience, understanding, respect and admiration are all apart of love and being in a relationship. We must show each other that the love is there, because in all truth and honesty; words are cheap, and love only speaks truths when we show what we mean. Huber Cagsil shared with me a very wise and true comment, "If it's that important to hear? Then you're not listening to begin with". I love this, because if we are truly paying attention, I love you doesn't need to be spoken. Thanks Cagsil for the insight!
Say I love you, without saying a word… because Love is worth the effort and the chance….
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