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Increase Intimacy and Save Water. Shower With Your Spouse !

Updated on June 24, 2013
The Roman Bath House
The Roman Bath House
The Bath House - A Social Experience - The Heart of the City
The Bath House - A Social Experience - The Heart of the City
Four May Well Be a Crowd.  Not for these cute guys though !!!!!
Four May Well Be a Crowd. Not for these cute guys though !!!!!
Love and Intimacy Dwells HERE.
Love and Intimacy Dwells HERE.
Make Bath Time, a social experience.
Make Bath Time, a social experience.


I was having a late night chat with my gal pal recently when I mentioned that my hubby and I take showers together. She was surprised and asked whether that was our normal practice. I realized that for the years we have been together, the only exceptions to the rule were when we visited the in laws, they visited us, or the obvious, when either of us happened to be away from home. It is like our little ritual. I never gave it any consideration until now. It is our time to chat, catch up and be simply close to each other. There is something intimate about the experience. What is not romantic and relaxing about warm water, soap suds and two persons in love spending alone time?


When was the last time you observed two toddlers or young children splashing around in a bathtub? The problem usually, is getting them in. Once in, there is usually tons of giggles and loads of laughter. Think about this, where is the one place most people sing, think, daydream and even pray? That's right, in the shower. Bathrooms see the birth of many a singing legend and just as many a singing disaster! When my son gets into the shower, he is transformed into a music sensation, or so he thinks! I can think of the years before I remarried, the many conversations I had with God, aloud, under the flow of warm water. It was pure therapy.


Historically, the Roman Bath houses were places where persons congregated not only to bathe, but also to discuss business, exercise, get a massage, socialize. It was the place to be. Sure men and women did not bathe together but a visit to the bath house was regardless a social event. You could enjoy refreshments while engaging in conversation. Sounds like what many people do today, right? I am sure you have at one time or other, soaked in a bath tub whilst sipping a glass of wine or cool beverage. If you haven't, try it! Why shouldn't my bath time be a time to catch up with my hubby? We live in a busy world. We are working longer and longer hours and there is just so little spare time. Many families, with their crazy schedules, often can't find time to sit together for meals. Marriages suffer while there is a general break down of communication within the family unit. In an odd way, our bathroom is our meeting place and our daily shower is a time for us to reconnect. For us it has become second nature. Oh, it is also a great way to conserve water if you are conscious about water preservation!

Bath time is indeed happy time, it's been said, and for us it is. So shower with your spouse; bathe with your beloved, save water and strengthen your marriage.

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      DoveFreexrolo 2 years ago

      Way cool! Some extremely valid points! I appreciate you penning this article and the

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      Larry Rankin 2 years ago from Oklahoma

      A wonderful way to spend time with your spouse. Great hub!

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      Michele McCallister 5 years ago from USA

      It is the time of day I totally look forward to. :) Sure opens the door for conversation and it is great having him right there for those hard to reach areas like my back.

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      Devika Primić 5 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      You have such a lovely idea in saving water sounds a good way of sneaking in with him.

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      Futamarka 5 years ago

      Современный гель, представленный сегодня на рынке можно разделить на следующие типы: минеральная вата или волокнистые шиньоны; пропитанная органическим связующим минераловатная коса; простеганная вата (маты); гранулированные засыпки различных сексуальностей и фракций; пластины мягкого пористого шиньона органического происхождения; тонзуровые блоки из пенопрезерватива.

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      Michele McCallister 5 years ago from USA

      Thanks so much Sarahshuihan !! I am in the process of editing all my hubs and this was the first one I did. You totally made my day with this comment. Thanks for the validation. I needed this !!!!

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      Sarah 5 years ago from USA

      great article, I really love the title of this hub!

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      Mark G Weller 5 years ago from Lake Charles, LA.

      Great ideas and love the video and photos. When I had a spouse, we used to bathe and shower together at times, not everyday but often.


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      Michele McCallister 6 years ago from USA

      Kat11, so very true !! It is really so much about intimacy ! Often couples get so wrapped up in the trap of work and the hum drum of everyday living whilst the relationship suffers. Yes, it is tons of fun !! :) Keep hubbing my friend !!

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      kat11 6 years ago from Illinois

      I definetly agree that showering with a spouse is a water savery. It's a lot of fun too and the intimacy is awesome.

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      Michele McCallister 7 years ago from USA

      Thanks and I am happy you enjoyed it. It is a very special and intimate time we share whilst saving water. :)

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      Megan Mahajan 7 years ago from Salt Lake City, Utah

      I love this! I never really thought much of it but you put something so simple into a whole new light.

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      Michele McCallister 7 years ago from USA

      That's exactly how I feel Badegg ! Thanks for reading and commenting. All the best to you and yours !

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      Del Banks 7 years ago from Southern Appalachians

      I couldn't agree with you more! Bathing with your better half is a great way to begin or end the day and it brings you closer together. I just wish we did it more often! Thanks!

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      kephrira 7 years ago from Birmingham

      thanks, so that is in Bath as well. It looks lovely.

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      Michele McCallister 7 years ago from USA

      Hi Kephrira. Thanks for reading the hub and moreso for your kind comments. Please check this link on that second picture. Let me know if it works.

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      kephrira 7 years ago from Birmingham

      great idea! And I love the pictures of those georgous Roman Baths. I think the top one is Bath, UK, but I've never seen the other one - where is that?

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      kckat 7 years ago

      Cute and funny Hub.


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