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Saving A Breaking Marriage Relationship

Updated on September 15, 2015

Divorces break partners hearts

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Handling infidelity in marriage

Infidelity is the leading cause of divorce world wide. A husband cheating on his wife or a wife cheating on the husband. It brings pain and mistrust. It creates wounds which are difficult to heal.In some cases, they never heal.

If unfaithfulness is the thing that is bringing trouble to your life, communicate with your partner and understand what is making your partner cheat on you. Is it that you are the one who has lost the true touch, the intimacy, the feelings and good moods towards your partner? May be you no longer care about his or her pains and that is why he or she is seeking this else where.Bring back the good things that brought you together.

Courtship period

Short courtship period denies both the man and a woman an opportunity to understand each other. No one is perfect.No one should have some unrealistic expectations in a marriage relationship. It is during the dating period that you will clearly understand your partner.

Never enter into a marriage relationship with a person that you don’t fully understand.People do hide their true colours.They cannot fake forever. Visit your partner without giving notices to know how they live.

Dating is key to a lasting relationship


Patience pays

It is the greatest weakness that destroys marriage relationship.Give your partner time to change a certain negative behavior. Changing is a process that does not happen overnight. It takes time.

Finding solutions to differences


Finding solutions to differences

Differences outweighing similarities – If you don’t have common goals, mission and vision, your marriage is not heading towards the right direction. Referring to my point number two on courtship, it is during the dating period that you talk with your partner so as to understand what his or her future plans are. The goals he or she has. How he or she defines success or achievement. If the similarities outweigh the differences, this may be the right partner for you. If otherwise, take care.

Marrying for wealth


Getting married for the right reasons

It is very unfortunate that there are some wrong reasons that bring people together. Rust may be one of this. There has been a reigning misunderstanding of the terms love and rust. Rust can disappear within days or months but true love lasts forever. Money is another reason why people especially women marry. When that uniting factor disappears, marriage ends. There are questions which may help you know why your partner wants to marry you. Reasons based on temporary things like money, beauty etc will not unite you forever.

Happy couple


Communication is key

Communication relieves the pain in the heart. It is only through communication that one gets to understand the true colours, feelings or the attitudes of your partner.


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      3 years ago

      Good post! :-)


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