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Secrets Men Want to Know about Women

Updated on February 27, 2013

Secrets Men should Know about Women

Secrets Men Should know about Women

Men find most of us women puzzles and difficult to understand, but if they knew these top secrets they might find us simply beautiful creatures that will respond to them in positive ways 99% of the time. If you look hard enough you will find the secrets in italics...

The Perfect Date

It’s your first date and you pick up your girlfriend, she’s hip and a today’s kind of girl, but holding the door open of the car and the movie theater door will definitely make her smile, inside and out. Even if she is in ripped jeans and you think she’s hot, tell her. Chivalry'; men might not realize even Miss Goth will like it in subtle ways.

Want to watch a movie at your home instead of going out, put a little effort into it, clean up the room, light a few candles, pop some popcorn, and get a cozy blanket to cuddle up together with. Avoid action movies, choose a good generic girlie movie or a thriller something both of you will like. Oh I know men don’t like girlie movies but there are good movies out there that will appeal to both of you. Some movies you might want to try that you both would like, are Limitless with Bradley Cooper and Robert De Niro, and No Strings Attached with Natalie Portman and Ashton Kutchner.

Dinner can be hot dogs in the park with a soda or maybe something upscale, but make it meaningful and fun, choose a park that you have been to, and know your favorite spot, tell her you want to share it with her. Sharing; is a very important part of a relationship.

Upscale dinner can be on the same level, go somewhere you have been before and know the service and food are good, somewhere that isn’t crowded, or familiar so that you will be able to give her your full attention. Yes women love attention, and remember that even after you catch her, she still will want your attention, not a deaf ear while you play video games or watch TV.

If you find work, life, and leisure, takes most of your time set aside one night per week to make it Date Night, but make it your idea.

Women and sex can be on many different levels, but don’t be shy to ask her one of her fantasies and play up that fantasy with her. Most fantasies will make great memories and full satisfaction because she knows you listened to her, and want to please her.

Giving her a flower or something she might collect be it a dollar item or something more will please a women. Keep your memories together. If you enjoyed something on your first date a flower in the park, a letter. Renew your memories.

After the best sex you can imagine with your lady cuddle and talk to her. Brush her hair back and tell her how beautiful she is, and yes there is that big question afterwards tell her what you are thinking about- and it will make her feel special, more special than snoring in her ear minutes later.

Everyone fights or does something stupid, and if that happens remember women don’t get over it in a half hour and move on, most women remember the hurt.. so try and apologize, Talk to her, and try to not repeat the same thing again. Repeated mistakes only brew revenge or more fighting.

Women are sensitive even the most prominent woman, or one with a great career, so never take her for granted, we all are vulnerable in some way. If you find out her vulnerability respect it.

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© B. A. Williams


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      B. A. Williams 5 years ago from USA

      Sorry to hear you dropped the ball, wish I could of helped. To make the copyright symbol push the ctrl and alt key at the same time and the c.

      It doesn't always work so copy and pastes is the best bet.

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      Joseph Franklin Dunkin Jr 5 years ago from Foley, Alabama

      Great article, B.A. Tried to do all those things in my marriage, but sure I dropped the ball somewhere (obviously). Should have kept you on retainer as an advisor all those years... :-) BTW, how do you make the copyright symbol? Or did you just cut and paste from elsewhere?

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      B. A. Williams 6 years ago from USA

      Epigraamman thanks for your feedback, what lovely words to lure me to read your work. Not that I think you're luring me to your page, just being silly. But thank you never the less.

      ahorseback, thanks for reading my article and I will be stopping by to read yours today.

      Thanks to both of you!

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      ahorseback 6 years ago

      Hey there ,"If you find her vulnerable , respect it" what better advice for anyone. A moment of grace. All great advice.........:-}

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      epigramman 6 years ago

      ...well the secret most men should know is how well you write and communicate your thoughts and ideas and make it an enlightening experience for your readers - and that I say - is your gift - and it's a gift to us too!

      lake erie time ontario canada - 6:38am not too far from you (2 and half hour drive from Buffalo; high winds by the lake tonight - winter as you know is knocking on our door - home after night shift and listening to a Brian Wilson tribute album with after work beer and two well fed pussycats!