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Sensitivity And Intuition Are a Woman's Greatest Traits. Women: How To Value Your Femininity! Men: Value Your Woman!
A woman has imbedded in her traits of sensitivity and also intuition from a young age and if they are not tainted with, you have a real gem. When a man is sarcastic to his woman, or criticizes her it can hurt very deeply even though his intention may not be to do so. This usually pertains more to women when they are in love. Men, read about how to value femininity in a woman!
Women naturally have intuition and sensitivity
When a man does not listen to a woman, she feels that he regards her as insignificant and unimportant.
It is a fact that although certain jobs require a degree such as a Bachelors or Masters, relationships and even marriage do not, and that appears to be quite a problem- just look at the statics of divorce today. As a woman, I need to be listened to, and appreciated. But, what can I do, if a man I'm in a relationship with does not listen to me? Well, there really is nothing I can do unless I go out looking and figuring out a way to get him to pay attention, which is talked about in the book I'm reading; For Better or for Best, written by Gary Smalley with Steve Scott.
One of the things I understand about myself is that my two greatest strengths are sensitivity and intuition. These allow me to love myself and others. Being sensitive to myself and others allows me to be compassionate and kind. Having intuition helps me to try and feel out what others may need from me, if not verbally said and it is not common, for men and women to not always speak what they need or want?
When thinking about relationships in general, leaves me a bit sad, to think that a man who is in love with a woman, would not value her two greatest strengths. But, I do believe that if a man wants his woman be happy, he will pay attention to learning about his woman's needs and buy the book below for men, If Only He Knew.
Usually it's woman who wants to make the effort to improve the relationship's communication.
Men Are From Mars!
I know very little about how a man's brain and emotions work, because for one men are from Mars and women are from Venus, and for two, I have not have not studied psychology or how men think, so this will be the very first thing I do on my list of things To Do!
Some advice I've been given, is that men need to be admired as much as women need to be romanced. I will say that positive feedback is important for all of us young and old, and go so far as to say that although respect is said to be earned, it would do a lot of us some good, to practice good manners including improving on what one already may have.
One of the things I learned as a child and young adult in school was to respect my teachers and parents by listening and being courteous. Having good manners is very attractive to me as well in a man because it lets me know he is willing to do what it takes to make me happy. :)
I Need a Hug!!
How A Man Should Love His Woman
If a man and woman do not put forth a strong and constant effort to make each other happy, their relationship will fail.
If I'm in love with you, usually what you say means a lot, and being overly critical is nasty! It should be common sense, if a man has upset his woman deeply- with or without meaning to- it will make it impossible or very difficult for her to respond romantically.
What boggles me is how a man could deny his woman affection or attention especially while she is crying?
"The two become one flesh."
If a man is a certain way, and a woman is another way, then the two becoming one are a team and become twice as strong. So, if men are less emotional- how important then is it, for him to belong with a woman who is emotional?
Emotions are a large part of survival as humans because we use them to express how we feel, and if a woman can help give her man the ability to express himself...how much more happy and passionate they will be to each other?
Couples Need Time Away- "Absence Makes the heart grow fonder"
Common Mistakes Men Make
Some men accuse their woman of being "crazy" if she is emotional. The better thing to do, is to ask, "Why do you feel this way?" or something to that effect. That would then give the her not only the opportunity to speak about what's on her heart and mind, but the confidence to do so and in the end, he will learn a great deal about her and may get some good insights into better ways of doing things as well.
Telling a woman "how" to feel is wrong. It discredits her and closes a door to this unique opportunity for further closeness/intimacy which she craves.
That Time of Month....
This time is not only hard for a man but for a woman as well because she is not "herself" and she needs to be reminded of "who she is" such that she is a really good and kind person and lover etc.And also this is when a woman needs her "women friends" and a man should remember that she identifies herself with her friends and community and not just with him.
Men and women who put in more effort than most will end up being in and attaining better relationships. This of course applies to all relationships including men/men or women/women and even friendships as well.
Thank you for reading. Please leave a comment below! :)