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7 Sexual Fantasies of Men and Women Exposed
What is a sexual Fantasy?
Have you ever imagined yourself doing a sexual act with a beautiful stranger? What about being forced and overpowered by your partner in bed with reckless abandon? Have you ever fantasized about your partner watching you while you strip naked? Or does it give you more pleasure when you do the watching yourself?
These are just some of the erotic mental images that both men and women are inclined to create in their minds. Since sexuality is inherent to man, sexual fantasies are pretty normal. It is a universal phenomenon which is most common to men and women beyond the age of puberty. Although sexuality is inherent to both men and women, their sexual behavior and tendencies are not entirely the same. Men are more rigid and straightforward when it comes to their sexual behavior while women are more personal and on the romantic side. Male sexual fantasies are more adventurous and impersonal while female sexual fantasies are often centered on their partner or loved ones. According to research and studies on human sexuality, men think of sex more than women. Furthermore, male sexual fantasies are focused on certain anatomical detail while female sexual fantasies are interlaced with emotion, romance and connection.
The lingering question for men has always been "what does a woman want?"...ironically, a woman wants the same thing men want...pleasure...This hub will prove that men and women do want the same things but varies in frequency and quality...
Let's find out the most common sexual fantasies of both men and women...
Female: Women naturally love big and strong men. In her sexual fantasies, however, she wants these men to be submissive to her and be willing to obey her every want, needs and desires. She wants to be in control because it makes her feel adored. Since it is entirely created in her mind, she can do whatever she wants to do with her man. She can be a sex goddess being worshipped by her very own sex slave...
Male: Men naturally see themselves superior to women. Being dominant in bed is certainly very "masculine" so it is normal for them to fantasize about being in control. They are innately territorial and they want their woman to be submissive to them. Men often fantasize about taking an innocent woman on their bed and passionately making love with her. The thought about penetrating an innocent woman awakens the chivalrous nature within him and it makes his fantasy deliciously exquisite.
2. Sexual Submission
Female: Sexual submission is the most common and popular sexual fantasy of women. As much as she wants to dominate her man, her feminine nature makes her crave for submission. She wants to be subdued and conquered by her man more than anything else. Sexual submission makes her feel wanted and secured. She wants her man to take her with hunger and desire because it makes her feel sexy and beautiful. She imagines his long fingers snaking through her hair while tilting her head back and kissing her passionately coaxing her to respond and open-up to him.
Male: Just like women, there are times when men enjoy being controlled over. He wants his woman to coax him and dominate him in bed. It tells him that she knows what she wants and it excites him to know that she will have her way to get it. Gone are the days where women carry chains and belts and tie her man to the bed...even a simple act of greeting him at the door wearing nothing but your sexy smile and tugging his necktie and pushing him to the bed, leaning on top of him is enough to make him go crazy...
Female: Women are fond of role-playing. They often fantasize themselves wearing a sexy and hot costume and acting out their role in front of their man. It can be a role of a nerdy student trying to impress her alpha male teacher or vice versa. No matter what role she plays it certainly will ignite her fire and excite her. As long as she receives a little spanking from her man, role-playing is surely one of the most common sexual fantasy that women want to act out in reality.
Male: Just like women, men love role-playing. I don't know why but most certainly it is because of the costumes or uniforms. Men want their women to play a role of a naughty school girl, a strict teacher, a strong policewoman, a sexy flight attendant or a daring nurse. Men are visual creatures. Anything that entices their view is certainly pleasurable for them. It is more exciting if the uniform outlines the woman's delightful curves and shows off her long slender legs...
4. Sex with a stranger
Female: Every woman wants attention. And nothing gets better when a totally hot stranger she encounters sweeps her off her feet, taking her somewhere they can be alone and passionately making love with her not caring for what will happen next...Although women are too personal when it comes to intimacy, they still crave for attention and pleasure with no strings attached to it...The setting doesn't need to be specific...it can be in a bar, on a secluded beach, in the deep forest..anywhere as long as the experience is good. Sex with a stranger allows women to be adventurous and carefree...it makes them feel irresistible that a hot stranger wants her for his taking...
Male: It is a more masculine tendency to indulge in casual sex so it is not surprising that sex with a stranger is among the many sexual fantasies of men. Studies show that most men fantasize about women who are not known to them on a personal level. They always find women delectable at any given time and place. It is no wonder that when they meet a woman for the first time, their eyes linger on their more feminine body parts. Is her waist small? Are her hips wide? Are her breasts big enough for his taste? Are her legs long, slender and smooth? If all the answers are to his liking, then a woman is sure in for the taking...the smell of raw flesh and the unknown pleasure are enough to entice his senses...
5. Group Sex
Female: As possessive as they are in reality, women would normally hate to share their men. But in her sexual fantasy, a woman can be really adventurous and daring. Group sex can be with another woman or it can shared with two equally handsome men. The thought that she can have two gorgeous men at her feet obeying her beck and call is deliriously pleasurable for a woman. Adding another sexy woman into the picture heightens her pleasure and allows her to explore more than she can imagine. Group sex lets her experience the best of both worlds. She can watch her man making out with the other woman while she makes herself busy with the other man. She can experience both for herself. Hearing another woman's moan of pleasure other than her own is so intoxicating, it's enough to make her hot and wet.
Male: If women can share their men with another woman, it is not the same with men. Men want to be the only male specie in the midst of sexy women. It's purely natural because men, by nature are territorial. Group sex for men means having as many women on his bed as possible. As always, he wants to display his masculinity and there's no better way to prove it than satisfying women one after another adoring and exploiting them to his heart's content. The sight of two women kissing each other and exploring their bodies, hearing their moans of pleasure will definitely drive him crazy...
Female: Women do fantasize about secretly being watched while she undresses or when she's doing something naughty to herself...Aside from being watched, she also likes to watch for the same reasons as men. The adrenaline rush it gives her while secretly looking at a bedroom window seeing her neighbors make out is certainly worth the fun and it excites her.
Male: Men are visual creatures; certainly, voyeurism is included on their favorite fantasies. They will really love to spy on their favorite crush after school when she changes her clothes from her bedroom window. He enjoys watching any sexual act and this is the main reason why men are into pornographic films and magazines. Similarly, men would love to sneak out and watch her sexy neighbor strip her clothes and make out with her boyfriend.
7. Forced Sex and Elusive Woman Fantasy
Female: According to studies, being ravished and forced into sex is one of the ultimate sexual fantasy a woman craves for next to submission. In reality, however, it is something a woman never hopes to experience. Since, imagination is free and boundless, being ravished in her imagination gives a woman a different kind of experience. It allows her to get the kind of sex she secretly craves for...hot, dirty, fierce, vigorous and wild. Everything happens according to her wish and since it's only in her imagination, she never gets hurt no matter how painful or fierce the penetration may be. In her mind, she tries to protest but deep down inside, she is aching with pleasure...
Male: Men does not necessarily fantasize about being raped. Rather, they go for an elusive woman. The thought that he cannot have the woman for his taking in reality, compels him to take her in his fantasy. The more elusive the woman is, the more rewarding and pleasurable his fantasies become when he takes her. And what's good about this set-up is that he can take her as much as he wants and whenever he pleases...It can be a distant cousin or a celebrity he admires...the harder it is to claim her, the more passionate his fantasies get.