ArtsAutosBooksBusinessEducationEntertainmentFamilyFashionFoodGamesGenderHealthHolidaysHomeHubPagesPersonal FinancePetsPoliticsReligionSportsTechnologyTravel

Sharing 11 Things That Really Bother Me

Updated on June 19, 2013

David Letterman's Late Show on CBS

is taped  "before a live audience."
is taped "before a live audience."

Other people and things that "bother" me

Hospital admitting clerks who force me to sign-in when I cannot even move my arms.
Hospital admitting clerks who force me to sign-in when I cannot even move my arms.
See the pharmacist on this sign? He is dressed in a white coat. Why?
See the pharmacist on this sign? He is dressed in a white coat. Why?
Making a friend dress like a cartoon character.
Making a friend dress like a cartoon character.
Self-promotion.
Self-promotion.
Sometimes just being in the wrong place at the wrong time bothers me.
Sometimes just being in the wrong place at the wrong time bothers me.
"Snoozer," is a cutie, but if his owner cannot control him, then she might get in trouble at  the supermarket.
"Snoozer," is a cutie, but if his owner cannot control him, then she might get in trouble at the supermarket.
Teenage girls who lie to older people and each other.
Teenage girls who lie to older people and each other.

Writer's note: This hub is sincerely dedicated to one of my valued-followers, "lovelife," who in the past has shared with me some things bother her. Thanks, lovelife, for your inspiration for this hub. Kenneth.)


I'm a member of the human race. Glad to be alive and able to type this story too. But being a human doesn't cover my inadequacies and flaws such as people, things and situations that I allow to bother me.


And by bother I mean, bother to a point of my almost losing what sense I have as a member of "the top of the food chain." I get ashamed of myself for being so weak when it comes to "certain" people and events that "these" people cause and do not take any responsibility for. That too, is a bother to me.


But I keep trying. And trying to overcome my flaws and be a victorious person, smiling to everyone I meet. At least, that is a future goal for me to reach. I didn't say I was a quitter.
Before I share the "10 Things That Really Bother Me," please allow me to set this up so you will understand where I am coming from. And you also might relate to some or all of the 10 things I am listing below.


There I am minding my own business. Not bothering anyone. And as if I haven't seen this "train wreck" happening a hundred times before, there "they" are. The people who seemingly thrive on doing stupid and unneeded things just for the sake of bothering me. And those around me. Things that cause my nerves to be on edge. My teeth grind. And jaws set firmly against the other. In short, these things not only bother me, but cause me to "bottle up" my much-warranted anger.


But I don't. I keep moving. Keep my mouth shut and get back to my home as fast as I can. But you can bet your bottom dollar that when I fall asleep that night, I see "these" people who produce things that bother me again and again in tormented dreams. I should have played off the Bruce Willis movie, "Sixth Sense," "I see bothersome people," but that would be cheap of me.


So here they are . . .the "11 Things That Really Bother Me," in technicolor and surround-sound.


1.) The term, "live audience," used on many television talk shows at the end of the show. Okay. Do I really believe that "any" television, theater, or film is going to be produced in front of a "dead" audience?


2.) Pharmacists wearing white coats. Why? Doctors used to wear white coats in the late 50's to the mid-60's. Why not be a "maverick," and wear a nice sports shirt with a name tag that reads, "Larry Donnley, Pharmacist," and do your thing behind the counter. No more being intimidated by a "guy in a white coat."


3.) Hospital clerks who check you in saying, "please sign here," okay, fine. What if "I" am bleeding to death, paralyzed and can barely speak my name? Get real, hospital personnel. Just look at my personal I.D. or driver's license. Or maybe the person who drove me to your medical care establishment may know me. Yeah, that makes sense.


4.) When I am doing business with companies and hear the representative say, "could, " as in be there by a certain time, or "may," be subject to area availabilities, then I get the shakes. Why doesn't huge corporations just be up front with potential customers? Is it really that hard? But if "we," the customer are late with a payment, why can't we use, "well, sir, my check "may" or "may not" be reaching you in two days. Or "yeah, I "could" work harder to remember if I mailed it or not, but I'm not going to.


5.) People who act like "jelly fish," and get on to me by saying, "Ken, you shouldn't be so angry," when "they" are the ones who provoked by physically, mentally or emotionally abusing an elderly person, a defenseless child or animal. Yeah, you are so right. I should mask my true feelings at your barbaric act. But I won't. I am a terrible actor.


6.) People who invite me to ride with them to a seminar or some social event and we agree on a time for them to pick me up and they are thirty-minutes to an hour late, never call to tell me why, and when they "do" arrive, "act" like nothing is wrong. Now let's play "If The Shoe's On The Other Hoof Game." If "I" am late, even five minutes late in picking these same joker's up to take them somewhere, it's "Ken, why didn't you call me? I was worried! That tardiness is not acceptable." So, buddy, why not ride with another sucker and leave me be.


7.) Clerks in stores who use this term loosely, "be with you in a minute," but cannot break themselves away from their co-workers who are enjoying some good stories about last night's "kegger," at "Mike Tommy," the assistant to the assistant manager's house that they are "surprised" that after I hear "be with you in a minute," over 40 times, I suddenly find it necessary to leave.


8.) (In my single days), girls who spent the evening either praising, "Shark," their "ex," or comparing me to "Shark," in ways I shall not publish on HubPages.


9.) (still in my single days), girls who insist that "I" tell them the truth and when they ask, "you think that she's pretty?" and I say, "yes," then they blow-up like a cheap firecracker. They were the ones who laid the groundwork, not me, so chill, girls I don't miss to this day.


10.) People in stores who insist on "me" holding their pet dog, "Snoozer," and they say, "he's got a touch of diarrhea," and laugh their heads off as "Snoozer," lets fly the contents of his bowels all over my new shirt from Target. I got it. Why don't "I" "go" on "Snoozer's" owner's shoes the next time I get diarrhea? Fair is fair after all.


And I guess "the" one thing that bothers the daylights out of me is . . .


11.) People who have the gall or nerve, or both, to stand in my face and tell me, "Ken, hardly anything in life bothers "me."
That's fantastic. I applaud your disciplined-personality. And mental focus.
I can relate. My parents raised me to "never," call anyone a liar. So I'm not.

Sales reps are always "selling"

no matter if I need their product or not.
no matter if I need their product or not.

Comments

    0 of 8192 characters used
    Post Comment

    • Gina145 profile image

      Gina145 

      5 years ago from South Africa

      Funny, but oh so true. I particularly liked the one about the "dead" audience.

    • kenneth avery profile imageAUTHOR

      Kenneth Avery 

      6 years ago from Hamilton, Alabama

      Anjo,

      Thanks so much for your kind remarks. I do sincerely appreciate it.

      Kenneth

    • Anjo Bacarisas II profile image

      Anjo Bacarisas II 

      6 years ago from Cagayan de Oro, Philippines

      so interesting.. i enjoyed reading your page, this was so nice and the idea was really good. thanks for this!

    • kenneth avery profile imageAUTHOR

      Kenneth Avery 

      6 years ago from Hamilton, Alabama

      Lupine,

      that made ME laugh. JobCorp grad's. Why cant pharmacists wear red, brown, even green??? I may need to run a seperate hub just on why pharmacists HAVE to wear white. They arent in old black and white television westerns, and most "rob" you with their prices. Oh well. Time and wardrobe will tell.

      Kenneth

    • kenneth avery profile imageAUTHOR

      Kenneth Avery 

      6 years ago from Hamilton, Alabama

      Debra,

      thanks for your kindness. I appreciate that so much.

      Kenneth

    • QudsiaP1 profile image

      QudsiaP1 

      6 years ago

      Nice list! :)

    • lupine profile image

      lupine 

      6 years ago from Southern California (USA)

      I just read a local newspaper article about "JobCorp" graduates. They graduated as pharmacists and pictured the group with their "white" coats...it reminded me of this article - it just made me laugh!

    • profile image

      Debra Emerson 

      6 years ago

      You make such good points. Plus they are funny too!

    • kenneth avery profile imageAUTHOR

      Kenneth Avery 

      6 years ago from Hamilton, Alabama

      LOL, Mrz, thank you, dear friend, for your kind words. I know all too well about the "Sunrise Nurses," those who invade your room at 3 a.m. to draw blood and if you flinch, they glare at you or worse, talk baby talk and insult what self-respect you have. Be firm when you are facing the pharmacist. Why dont you ask him why he cannot wear a brown, even a black leather pharmacists' coat??? That might start a good conversation. Be careful and have a safe 4th!!!!

      Kenneth

    • TheMrz profile image

      TheMrz 

      6 years ago from Charleston, SC

      Love, love, love this!!!!! I can not tell you how many hospital clerks have gotten the "are you kidding me" stare of death. : ) I totally agree with many of your points. Now I have to go face the strange pharmacist in a starched white ensemble. Voted up completely.

    • kenneth avery profile imageAUTHOR

      Kenneth Avery 

      6 years ago from Hamilton, Alabama

      Dearest catgypsy,

      you reckon I need to be the one who contacts HubPages about this idea?

      Hey, maybe I can train Festus to do it.

      Kenneth :)

    • catgypsy profile image

      catgypsy 

      6 years ago from the South

      Kenneth, what a great idea...soooo funny!

    • kenneth avery profile imageAUTHOR

      Kenneth Avery 

      6 years ago from Hamilton, Alabama

      Greetings, Whidbeywriter,

      Thank you kindly for your remarks. I am glad to know that Im not alone. Please visit me at anytime.

      Have a great 4th!

      Kenneth

    • kenneth avery profile imageAUTHOR

      Kenneth Avery 

      6 years ago from Hamilton, Alabama

      Hello, tillsontian!

      Thank you for caring. And to compliment your powers of perception, when this was wrote, I was having a bad day remembering all of the people who have "used me," for lack of a better term, as their welcome mat and bullseye. Thank you for being there for me and for the vote. Have a great day!

      Kenneth PS: And all of you have a Safe 4th!!!

    • kenneth avery profile imageAUTHOR

      Kenneth Avery 

      6 years ago from Hamilton, Alabama

      Hello, lupine: You are absolutely right. I am way too guilty of letting my tongue outrun my mind. Thanks for reminding me of such a great idea to live by. Oh, the Book of James in the NT, says, "be quick to think, slow to speak and slow to anger," I wish I had used that in this hub. That scripture advice alone, for me, is a lifetime work.

      Kenneth

    • kenneth avery profile imageAUTHOR

      Kenneth Avery 

      6 years ago from Hamilton, Alabama

      Hello, Tamron,

      Thank you too, for your sweet comments. I left out this one: People who say, "someone told me not to tell this, but . . ." Well, DONT! That only increases my desire to want to know this secret news.

      The white coat thing is always going to be a mystery. Could it be that pharmacists are men and women who dreamed of being a doctor and couldnt cut the tests??? Just sharing.

      Kenneth

    • kenneth avery profile imageAUTHOR

      Kenneth Avery 

      6 years ago from Hamilton, Alabama

      @ catgypsy: PS: kiss to Festus. Done.

    • kenneth avery profile imageAUTHOR

      Kenneth Avery 

      6 years ago from Hamilton, Alabama

      Hello, catgypsy,

      Thanks for your kind remarks. They always cheer me up. Now Im thinking that HubPages should issue us all white coats as we are members of an elite website. And when people drop in to see us and we are working on a hub, they will see our white coats and reply, "ooh, sorry. You are filling a hub. I will come back." Hey, that might work.

      Thanks! KENNETH

    • Whidbeywriter profile image

      Mary Gaines 

      6 years ago from Oak Harbor on Whidbey Island, Washington

      Love it....and some of the same things that I do not care for either.....life has thrown some real strange people in my paths. It's only by God's grace that I can remain sane. Thanks for sharing and blessings!

    • tillsontitan profile image

      Mary Craig 

      6 years ago from New York

      Looks like you've had a rough day ;) Inconsiderate people always bother me. Say what you mean and mean what you say!

      I agree the white coats are pretentious as are teenage girls.

      Voted up.

    • lupine profile image

      lupine 

      6 years ago from Southern California (USA)

      If people would "think" before they "do" or "say" something, we could all be less bothered. I try not to let things bother me these days...everyone has a reason (good or bad) for whatever they say or do.

    • tamron profile image

      tamron 

      6 years ago

      I relate to white coats to pain or a barer of bad news.

      Great Work

    • catgypsy profile image

      catgypsy 

      6 years ago from the South

      Ha! I'm the first comment! That's what being a night owl will do! I could relate to so many! I love the one about the pharmacist...why should they wear white coats? It's a terrible thing for people who have white coat syndrome...even doctors have gotten away from wearing them!

      Great hub, as usual!

      Give Festus a kiss from me.

    working

    This website uses cookies

    As a user in the EEA, your approval is needed on a few things. To provide a better website experience, hubpages.com uses cookies (and other similar technologies) and may collect, process, and share personal data. Please choose which areas of our service you consent to our doing so.

    For more information on managing or withdrawing consents and how we handle data, visit our Privacy Policy at: https://hubpages.com/privacy-policy#gdpr

    Show Details
    Necessary
    HubPages Device IDThis is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons.
    LoginThis is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.
    Google RecaptchaThis is used to prevent bots and spam. (Privacy Policy)
    AkismetThis is used to detect comment spam. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide data on traffic to our website, all personally identifyable data is anonymized. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Traffic PixelThis is used to collect data on traffic to articles and other pages on our site. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized.
    Amazon Web ServicesThis is a cloud services platform that we used to host our service. (Privacy Policy)
    CloudflareThis is a cloud CDN service that we use to efficiently deliver files required for our service to operate such as javascript, cascading style sheets, images, and videos. (Privacy Policy)
    Google Hosted LibrariesJavascript software libraries such as jQuery are loaded at endpoints on the googleapis.com or gstatic.com domains, for performance and efficiency reasons. (Privacy Policy)
    Features
    Google Custom SearchThis is feature allows you to search the site. (Privacy Policy)
    Google MapsSome articles have Google Maps embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    Google ChartsThis is used to display charts and graphs on articles and the author center. (Privacy Policy)
    Google AdSense Host APIThis service allows you to sign up for or associate a Google AdSense account with HubPages, so that you can earn money from ads on your articles. No data is shared unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Google YouTubeSome articles have YouTube videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    VimeoSome articles have Vimeo videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    PaypalThis is used for a registered author who enrolls in the HubPages Earnings program and requests to be paid via PayPal. No data is shared with Paypal unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook LoginYou can use this to streamline signing up for, or signing in to your Hubpages account. No data is shared with Facebook unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    MavenThis supports the Maven widget and search functionality. (Privacy Policy)
    Marketing
    Google AdSenseThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Google DoubleClickGoogle provides ad serving technology and runs an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Index ExchangeThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    SovrnThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook AdsThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Unified Ad MarketplaceThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    AppNexusThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    OpenxThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Rubicon ProjectThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    TripleLiftThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Say MediaWe partner with Say Media to deliver ad campaigns on our sites. (Privacy Policy)
    Remarketing PixelsWe may use remarketing pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to advertise the HubPages Service to people that have visited our sites.
    Conversion Tracking PixelsWe may use conversion tracking pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to identify when an advertisement has successfully resulted in the desired action, such as signing up for the HubPages Service or publishing an article on the HubPages Service.
    Statistics
    Author Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide traffic data and reports to the authors of articles on the HubPages Service. (Privacy Policy)
    ComscoreComScore is a media measurement and analytics company providing marketing data and analytics to enterprises, media and advertising agencies, and publishers. Non-consent will result in ComScore only processing obfuscated personal data. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Tracking PixelSome articles display amazon products as part of the Amazon Affiliate program, this pixel provides traffic statistics for those products (Privacy Policy)