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She believed she could, so she did.
When will the beating end?
You might be wondering what is that she did and who is this she? Well, this is for all the beautiful, strong, courageous and bold women that exist in this universe. Before I go any further, smile, you are beautiful.
Society has made us feel so little, by telling us what we can do and what we can not do but that is not how it is supposed to be. Some jobs are said to be, men jobs mainly because they need more strength. Whoever said to men that they are more powerful than us has obviously deceived them. Let me list a few things that women go through and men surely wouldn't survive; Period pains which normally come monthly, giving birth to your precious baby, your body changing after pregnancy, heartbreaks that these men cause and many more.
In the country that I am from, a lady was walking to go catch a combie(taxi) and men started undressing her because she wasn't dressed "appropriately" and what hurt the most was how other fellow sisters didn't bother to help but instead joined the men and ridiculed the lady. As a human being I should be allowed to wear what i want, however I want and wherever I want! Most ladies have been visually undressed by men despite what you are wearing, whether long or short, tight or loose they will still do it.
Ladies, understand that abuse isn't only physical, there is also emotional. Once a man raises his hand to hit you, LEAVE and never look back. If he thought about it then surely he is capable of doing it again, so don't stay up until it's too late. Once he gives you the first sign of abuse, exit because you deserve much better than that. You deserve a man that will treat you like the Queen that you are not somebody who will make you their punching bag! Never rely on a man, rather work so hard so that you don't have to hear these words coming from a man,"You would not be here if it weren't for me."
One last thing, women stop being jealous when you see other fellow sisters flourishing. Stop gossiping and spreading rumours about one another. Do you know how beautiful it would be when each one of us is motivating each other to do great?You don't need drama in your life but what you need is shopping!
Stay gorgeous my fellow mothers and sisters.