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FAMILY, LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP: Signs that a guy is just using you or playing games with you
How can a guy make a girl believe and fall for him
I observed mostly guys in today's world can easily get what they want from a girl they choose to be with. The secret? well, that's what I'm going to tell you now. This is a bad revelation to the girls because they might think that all men are the same but not all men are bad or unemotional. I don't want women to hate all men. I am just trying to show girls how to trust guys and how to look at the signs they are doing to them to make them feel loved and special but I'm sure will turn out to be disappointed.
Stop guessing now, here are some tips you might need in your life.
Here are the Signs:
* Beware of so sweet gestures or words when you meet him in person the first time. Even though, both of you chatted each other everyday, always remind yourself that there's no love online. Love can only be bloomed when you both do activities together, there should be a physical contact, emotional connection and intellectual conversation. If no such things that I've mentioned then it's surely it's for a game or pleasures or taking advantage of you or worse case scenario he needs to use you. Most of the guys want pleasure and games but they are not responsible with you and your emotions. So, be aware of this act from a guy you meet.
* When he talks to you, he will make you feel special by calling you babe, hun, baby, etc. He will tell you that he is looking for someone special and it could be you. He's gonna say you are pretty, exotic or tall and skinny which are all his likes to make you feel flattered. In short, he needs to convince you that he's hook with you. He will then say next after he sensed that you loved all he's saying to you such as he wants you to be his wife, his partner in life forever and a day, etc. Of course, girls love fairy tales, those are the words they wanna hear from a guy. If you are guilty in his trap, then it's time for you to wake up.
* He will invest time and sometimes a little money on you. He will talk to you online, text you back and forth In phone or ask you to call him. He will do it everyday I bet you. That's his job, to make you feel worthy of his time. He will then say that he doesn't like to chat, he hates it or even say he doesn't talk to anyone but he does anyway for you because he finds you really are interesting and mysterious for him.
* For meeting up, he will invite you to come over to his place. Or maybe ask you to invite him to your place if you are living alone. Beware, because even he says just for hang out for a cup of coffee to know each other face to face, you should always keep in mind that he just wants sex.
Do not fall easily with the beautiful words that a guy will say or promise you.