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Sober Singles Dating Sites

Updated on June 29, 2009

Sobriety can be a tough road but it needn’t be a lonely road once you’re ready to invite someone into your life. That said, it can sometimes be difficult to meet that special someone at a local AA meeting, particularly if you’re young and most of the members are way out of your age range. If you’d like to meet a growing number of sober singles, check out one of these dating sites for those in sobriety. Note that there are other singles sites for recovering people, but these in particular are more or less geared to sober-specific, which should be fairly obvious from their names. If you’re not pleased with them for any reason, be sure to also check out my article on recovering dating sites for all walks of recovery.

Sober Social is a sobriety network for singles looking to find love. With more than 8,000 sober singles to choose from, you are bound to find someone you fancy. Feel free to browse, but if you want to use the forms, read the blog or participate in groups you will need to register. Sober Social allows you to register by your particular addiction and record your clean time as well. If you’re not quite sure about it you can always go into with the expectation of making new friends and see what happens.

This sober singles site is more of your traditional dating site. Members of Sober Seek can chat online, call each other anonymously through the call center, send sms messages, make use of several extensive pairing questionnaires, and video chat. Pretty thorough way to meet new sober singles online!

Sober Kiss offers some fantastic features. Not only can you verify a potential date’s age, education or income, you can also partake in the forums, recovery blogs, use the recovery calendar and contact other sober singles as often as you like. If you’re a standard member you will only be able to send a flirt, so going Gold and getting access to the verified members is probably going to be worth it.

Another singles site for sober dating, Sober Matches offers free sign up, free searching and free matching. If you join up for the Silver membership you’ll be able to initiate contact with other members and even instant message them if you like. Chat rooms will also be accessible if you’d like to meet more people. If you want to create your own sobriety blog, you’ll need a Gold membership.


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      5 years ago

      Try they are giving out 1,000 FREE lifetime memberships so I'm hoping they will get big!

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      5 years ago

      The BEST and most modern, free online sober dating website is www.SEXYSOBERSINGLES.COM They are unsurpassed when it comes to advice and promoting sobriety. They have the coolest features, live chat, a facebook-like wall, and friendly staff members to help you 24/7. The site layout is great, and they give you so much with your membership, unlike other really expensive sites out there. I give this an A+ because the members are also nice and it is a lovely environment.

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      Anthony U 

      8 years ago

      Although we are not a dating site, is a great place to meet other sober folk. Come join us.

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      9 years ago

      Please visit where you can search for and find Sober Singles and Friends in ALL 12 Step Programs of Recovery. You can search and find others in Recovery by your own Personal Program of Recovery. AA, NA, AL-ANON, GA, DA, OA, etc...Email, IM, Chat, Forum, Events, All Free!

      Also visit for the GLBT Community in Recovery.

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      9 years ago

      Looking for a sober single male, Christain prefered.


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