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- Advice & Tips for Women in Relationships
Space in a relationship
Years ago people got married when they were in their 20's. People waited til they were married to go away together. Then people started focusing on their career and waiting to get married. Now in 2013 girls and guys in their 20's are; going away together, living together and even getting married.
It is important in every relationship to give each other space. It is not healthy for couples to be together 24/7. You should be able to go out with your friends and he should be able to go out with his friends. If you can't go out separately because you are worried than you don't trust each other. If you don't have trust in a relationship then you don't have anything.
Don't leave your friends flat. Put yourself in their position. How would you feel if they had a boyfriend and forgot about you? It would hurt. So make sure you make time for your friends even if it is once a week.
There is no rush to get married or do things that you are not ready for. Everyone should go at their own pace in life. Just because you are not with someone all the time does not mean you don't love them. You could have time for; you family, friends, boyfriend and most important you. Just because you are in a relationship does not mean that you have to stop living your life.