Steps for a successful marriage.
Comes a day when we know the person who steals our heart! Marriage is not so far when this love is mutual, but even the most big loves can not escape the routine marital life. We forget all the beautiful things and focus at practical things, like work, kids, career.
This isn't wrong, but is a custom that can destroy the marriage! It's normal that passion isn't forever, this is a rule of nature, but we can recover it! It's not necessary to do big things, are just simple gestures that can improve your life. Don't be afraid of your marital life, don't see it like restriction of rights! Choose your partner by loving him/her at the beginning, because if you don't, you will love the idea of a partner not him or her, and this is a big problem!
With few steps this will be more simple.
Listen to your partner!
No just listening the sound of him/her voice, but to understand every thought that she/he wont to express you. By listening to your partner you avoid the majority of problems. Everybody needs sincere device, make sure that you will be the adviser of your partner. By listening you can understand if she/he hasn't the same feeling at the first time and if listening is the problem you can fix it!
Help him/her to believe on him/her self!
Remanded all of him/her skills,qualities and all victories that has reached. It's important to stress on this things because are moments that all persons lose trust and hope and this is the start for to many problems. Show him/her for what you felt in love and make him/her to believe that he/she is the best for you.
Do not compare him/her with someone else!
Remember he/she is unique. Is your choice. He/she has the qualities that no one else has. If you do the mistake to compare with some one else, like your ex or your friend husband/wife you will have only problems. This doesn't mean that you can't improve your partner, but you have to do without an example. Create you own atmosphere in your relationship and no one can penetrate.
Give him/her some space!
Everyone needs some moments alone. For one moment we need to think in our way for life, work ,our self. This doesn't mean that he/she doesn't love you anymore. If she/he wants this do it. Use this time to stay with your self, you will see that you really needed. Will enjoy more each other after this moment.
The new is never bored. Do different and new things, do not let the monotony ruin your days together. Don't be ashamed to do some new things in your sexual life, try new positions and new places. Go to bed together every night! This may be a kind of strange but is a custom that will connct you more.
Remember the past
Tell him/her for all memories and discuss about this. Ask to do this things again ore make him/her a surprise. You can also do small gifts like flowers or chocolate or other things that your partner wants. A little romance will light up you spirits and you will feel younger and happier.
Do things together!
Doing things together make easier the conversation between the couple.The conversation is the key for a successful marriage, because its all clear and are no reasons for fight.
Believe in your self!
This is the mos important thing! Anyone of this that i'v said can be without this! You doesn't are just another human being. You are you and you are here here for something. You are special and your best figure it's you. You can do to much for you partner, for the person that you love but you NEVER have to change for him/her. If she/he really loves you is in love with all yours, with your face, body, mind with the way you eat, with the way you do things everything! If you lose you personality you will lose your partner because you make him/her to believe that you doesn't are a decided person and love will disappear. After this you will feel very empty because you did all for you partner but not in the right way!
Be your self and move on!