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Stupid Stupid

Updated on April 24, 2018

 Have you ever been with someone that you shouldn't be with? You try and try to make it work but it never does. He says that he will change and make things right but the truth is that things are only as good as how they are now. Ladies be smart and don't fall for any lies. So many times we give these no good men freedom to run over us and treat us like crap.

There is no reason for you to have to go through all the stress that you do just for a guy who doesn't deserve you. We constantly make the mistake of thinking we can change them and make them into a better person. The truth is that we can't change them, and why should we have to. It shouldn't have to be so much work for you to get a guy to love or respect you, it should come naturally.

Do we deserve someone who doesn't play games? Yes we do! We deserve someone who isn't going to just string us along without a commitment we need someone who knows for sure that he loves us and wants to be with us.

I knew a girl once, a stupid girl, who wasted six years of her life on a guy who did nothing for her. He thought that because he would have little side jobs and tell her that he loves her that everything would be okay. He thought that was enough and the stupid girl went along with it. She wasted her youth and time on him, luckily she saw the light and thought that it wasn't enough for her and that she wanted more. She wanted more then he could give and dumped him.

Alright, yes that girl is me. I thought that if I hung in there he would change, and I wanted him  to so badly because I loved him. But things weren't going anywhere and I had to make myself happy.

I encourage you ladies to make yourself happy. Please do not stay in a relationship where you are unhappy and it goes nowhere. Please know that you deserve the very best in life, and don't let anyone tell you that you cant find your happily every after. Trust your heart, and don't be stupid.


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      Ashley Allard 

      7 years ago from USA

      I agree marketing merit, it's not always easy when a child is involved. You just have to take it one day at a time.

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      C L Grant 

      7 years ago from United Kingdom

      I agree with you but it's not always that easy to walk away, especially if there are children involved.

      The prospect of leaving your partner can be rather daunting, to say the least, and not all women have the self confidence or financial means to do that.

      Nonetheless, it's never too late to start again, regardless of your age or circumstances!!

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      7 years ago

      I made a mistake with someone in my life once. It's most certainly a lesson learned.


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