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The (2) Reasons Why Women Cheat In Relationships

Updated on January 7, 2015

It doesn't feel good being cheated on.

It leaves you with more questions than answers.

The time you've invested in the relationship becomes meaningless.

She cheated and you're left wondering, why?

Women don't cheat for the same reasons men do.

If you think cheated because she doesn't love you; you could be wrong.

Ever watch the show called Cheaters?

Investigators secretly follow and record the actions of people who cheat on their partner.

In nearly every case women who are caught cheating don't want to end their relationship.

Then Why Do They Cheat?

  • The 1st cause of her indiscretion is frustration.

Women get frustrated when don't getting what they want.

If her expectations are not being met she will look to be satisfied elsewhere.

Frustration leads to anger. Anger can then lead to resentment and as this cycle continues it will soon lead to cheating.

It doesn't mean she doesn't love you. But if something is not done to correct the situation, she will cheat.

  • The 2nd cause of their indiscretion is boredom.

Sustaining a healthy and vibrant relationship takes effort.

When a relationship becomes boring and routine chances are infidelity will occur.

Make the necessary adjustments to curb the desire for her to cheat.

Here are a few important things to consider.

How To Keep Her from Cheating on You

Men fall into the trap of allowing the relationship to lose its zest by sticking to the same old routine.

The quickest way to lose a woman's interest is to become predictable.

Every relationship needs a little spice to keep it interesting inside the bedroom and out.

Break the monotony and change the routine.

If you never buy flowers, surprise her on occasion.

Unexpected acts create a sense of excitement and fosters a new level of commitment she yearns to give.

Most women don't want to cheat but you should find ways to keep the spark in your relationship.

When women cheat men are often caught by surprise, check out the (5) signs she is seeing another man to see if any of them sound familiar.


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    • PaoloJpm profile image

      John Paolo B.Magdaluyo 

      5 years ago from Philippine

      Interesting article! That's right! Girls or woman would probably cheat when everything starts to become boring or predictable. Since most of the woman I knew, some of them told me that they want something new, always new, something special and most of all the FUN. And fun can be anything, it can denotes to physically, emotionally or materially and etc. Anyway, good job for pointing it out Voted up.

    • Cantuhearmescream profile image


      5 years ago from New York


      I think you had some good points, more specifically a lot of women cheat because they no longer feel desired in their relationship and/or someone else is offering them desire, which will feed into the issues of the women not feeling desired in their relationships. I don't think a lot of women go out of their way to cheat, but if those "emotional" needs aren't being meant and home AND the opportunity exists in which someone else is trying to fill those needs, then cheating is likely. Unhappiness and/or boredome may be related to desire.

      Voted up!



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