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The ABC of Love - A Song of Harmony

Updated on January 27, 2013

Perhaps the most exciting and complex form of love is what we want to offer to and receive from one particular man - the one we love.

When in love, people feel inexpressible joys of contentment. They are happy. A woman finds this joy in the effort of making things extra special for her man, with hopes that they both find life full and interesting. Because the two people making a marriage are quite different from everyone else, the life they create together is unique.

At the touch of love, the heart opens up with joy. If the lovely sound of the alphabet song shaped our minds, it could also shape our love life with the exciting sound of its own heart-made ABC.

Love's ABC

Almighty Love, is the source of love. With prayer, love is strong; without God, love is bland.

Beauty is a blessing, adding to the joys of love, but not necessarily to it.

Caring a little is the beginning of everything. Take care of his heart.

Difference of opinion is challenging. Meet halfway to make one, shared life.

Embers from fierce fire leave only a dull glow. Sweep it aside.

Flirt a little. Suggesting hidden reserves is intense charm. Men love it.

Giving is the essence of love; restraint is the wisdom; blend them to make love sweeter.

Hostile feelings slowly destroy happiness. Bring conflicts out. It put things right.

Illicit love starts at a disadvantage, falters and fades in the false air of uncertainty.

Just as you like to be appreciated, admired, and made much of … so does he.

Knowing when to change the mood to suit the moment is the height of femininity and the basis of attraction.

Let him be the boss, you'll be happier that way in the long run. Your man is man.

Men are also human. They love for different reasons but feel much the same as we do. They get happy, hurt, proud, and all the rest.

Now is today and not tomorrow. Make the most of love every moment, every hour, every day.

Occasional argument helps love grow, provided with the right things and in the right way.

Perfection is impossible. Acceptance is your greatest asset. Nurture it.

Questions should seldom be asked, and then indirectly. Gentleness is master key.

Romance blossoms love above clouds. Much of it is, but not all of it.

Smile and laughter make things alight. Take delight.

Talking together strengthens bond. It's perfect every time.

Understanding, consideration and generosity are special gifts of love. Cherish and share.

Voice out and express your desires. It suggests mutual attraction. Pleasant to both.

Women need men and men will need women. Love means the two of you. All the time.

X is for kisses. Shower him with lots of it. It makes man forget the dustiness of his day.

Youth is beauty that soon passes. Take care of your body and keep your looks.

Zest colors love. It makes love full of life. Love is the beginning of life. Treasure it.

So this is the thing called LOVE

Love, in its widest sense, is a beautiful flower in the garden of life, but it is frail, and needs careful tending. Water it with the rhythm of love's alphabet song - a song which seems to have nothing to do with worldly attributes. It cannot be achieved by will power. Money cannot afford it, but it can be shared alike by those who are clever, and those who are not. These are special gifts of love that when given bounteously from a generosity of heart can see a little farther than normal.

If you're less than perfect to sing the ABC of love harmoniously, don't worry about it. We all are. Why not begin it this Valentine's Day? Just try sing it. Just do it... It's for love.


Allow Me to Bring You to REAL LOVE



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    • Tonipet profile imageAUTHOR

      Tonette Fornillos 

      3 years ago from The City of Generals

      Lanette, thank you. You're such an inspiration -- lucky the man you love:=) Hugs and kisses and MERRY CHRISTMAS! -Tonette

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      3 years ago

      You coulnd't pay me to ignore these posts!

    • Tonipet profile imageAUTHOR

      Tonette Fornillos 

      5 years ago from The City of Generals

      Oh, thank you Vinaya. Love, when its true and sincere, sees nothing wrong. Great to have you stopped by. I wish you the love your heart so desires. Best of all and keep up! :=) Smiles from the city of generals:=)-Tonette

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      Vinaya Ghimire 

      5 years ago from Nepal

      Quite an interesting take on love. I agree with many points you have shared.

    • Tonipet profile imageAUTHOR

      Tonette Fornillos 

      5 years ago from The City of Generals

      Hello Pamela-anne. Thank you. There's nothing as fulfilling than knowing how interesting this ABC of Love is to many of us. Glad that you find this charming. You're an inspiration. Thanks for reading my hub.

      Blessings and warm Valentine greetings to you! -Tonette

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      5 years ago from Miller Lake

      Loved your abc's of love very interesting and charming hub keep them coming!

    • Tonipet profile imageAUTHOR

      Tonette Fornillos 

      5 years ago from The City of Generals

      Thank you pstraubie. Aspiring for perfection in love just makes it unhappy, but appreciating the best we can afford seems the most perfect way to loving. Like you said, powerful. Thank you for dropping by and for the beautiful angels. You're wonderful. Happy Valentine's Day! - Tonette

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      Patricia Scott 

      5 years ago from sunny Florida

      Your ABC's hold many thoughtful ideas....P is especially powerful.

      Thank you for shairng this with us.

      Sending Angels to you :) ps

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      Dianna Mendez 

      5 years ago

      Happy Valentine's Day to you too. God is good indeed!

    • Tonipet profile imageAUTHOR

      Tonette Fornillos 

      5 years ago from The City of Generals

      Oh, Wow... thank you teaches. Such a great privelege to get connected to you. It doesn't happen everyday... GOD is wonderful, indeed. He makes all things beautiful. Thank you so much. HAPPY VALENTINE!

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      Dianna Mendez 

      5 years ago

      "Love, in its widest sense, is a beautiful flower in the garden of life, but it is frail, and needs careful tending"

      This is so very true. Love is fragile and needs our daily tending. Its beauty comes from our attention to it. I love this post. Voted up! I am linking it to my True Love post.

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      Tonette Fornillos 

      5 years ago from The City of Generals

      Hi Girish. Perhaps the sweetest magic of all. Thank you for dropping by and for sharing. Happy Valentine to you and blessings all the way. -Tonette

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      Girish puri 

      5 years ago from NCR , INDIA

      True, love is magical, beautiful share.

    • Tonipet profile imageAUTHOR

      Tonette Fornillos 

      6 years ago from The City of Generals

      Hello Sue - I'm happy you find my words wise and beautiful. Perhaps just the way love should be, the way my little mind finds it best. THANK YOU very much for sharing this on Facebook, I'm happier the world may try to sing the song of love even in different tones:=) Thank you for reading and nice to meet you, too. Best wishes!

      Hello Debbie - How are you? You're among those who have touched my heart, and thanks to Sue, you found my Love's ABC hub - truly an honor. Thanks for voting and for sharing this. You are a true feminine woman. Hope you're feeling great and in the best of all.

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      Deborah Brooks Langford 

      6 years ago from Brownsville,TX

      I am so glad that Sueswan shared this on Facebook.. I love it.. voting up and sharing



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      6 years ago

      Hi Tonette

      Very wise and beautiful words about love.

      Loved it.

      Voted up and away!

      Take care :)

    • Tonipet profile imageAUTHOR

      Tonette Fornillos 

      6 years ago from The City of Generals

      My dear KJ. Sometimes people might just don't realize how love put colors to life, but when given a very special time, all of us will be awed at how at the touch of it, everyone becomes a poet.

      "like ABE...Almighty love/Beauty is a blessing/Embers from fierce fire."

      You always have been making wonderful rhymes. Loved them all, truly. Thank you so much for being my inspiration. Blessings always:=)

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      6 years ago from Florida

      Tonipet...what a cool ABC's of love....very original..great way to do a " love" card for ABE...Almighty love/Beauty is a blessing/Embers from fierce fire...awesome job....thanks

    • Tonipet profile imageAUTHOR

      Tonette Fornillos 

      6 years ago from The City of Generals

      Thank you spy. Love is AMAZING, it's why. Thanks for the votes, you're wonderful. Hope you're doing fine. Best wishes!

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      Not Found 

      6 years ago from Neverland - where children never grow up.

      Wow tonipet..such an amazing hub! Lovely!! All my votes!

    • Tonipet profile imageAUTHOR

      Tonette Fornillos 

      6 years ago from The City of Generals

      Hello there Ruby. From a beautiful home to a lovely heart, you're so much a woman of light and beauty. It's so nice that you loved my heart-made ABC recipe:=) Thanks for giving it a chance to dance a two way street, just as it should be. LOVE is lucky in your heart. Blessings!

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      Ruby Jean Richert 

      6 years ago from Southern Illinois

      I love this. Your suggestions are right on. Love is a two way street,,Thank's


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