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The Real Deal With Dating & Attraction‏

Updated on September 5, 2011

If you're interested in dating and attraction, you'll probably know that there are near-infinite
numbers of dating coaches out there on the Net, each marketing his own particular brand of wisdom on how to 'get more females' ... and each trying to convince us all of his own unique 'spin' on the subject.

You'll also probably know that most of this so-called knowledge is based mostly upon EXTREMES of approach.

I'm sure you know what I mean: that you're either out there trying to 'score' as many hot
females as possible (belt-notches optional but recommended) ...

... or, you're trying to find 'The One', and therefore should NOT be in the market for any kind
of fun, relaxed dating practices, like dating more than one person at a time. That would just be
irresponsible, right?

It's like there are only two ways of looking at this whole 'dating and attraction' thing: you're
either out there to get as much as possible, as QUICK as possible ... or you're out there to find a future wife, 'nuff said.

As it turns out, however, there IS an intermediary 'middle ground', and it's called figuring out how to BE the kind of guy that the best women are NATURALLY ATTRACTED to ... that, WHATEVER your 'end goal' is (whether that's a string of fast'n'furious short-term
flings or one superlative relationship), you're able to act in a way that's authentic and true to
yourself ... while still achieving whatever it is that you set out to achieve.

Here's the deal with this 'middle ground' approach.

Once you become that guy who just instinctively 'is' attractive to himself, you never have to bog yourself down trying to 'role-play', use 'canned material', or hide behind a pseudo-social mask of witty one-liners and bravado in the hopes of 'getting' a female.

Instead, you can literally just be YOURSELF (albeit your BEST self), and watch in wonderment as a virtual red carpet of amazing women and ABUNDANT OPTIONS unfurls in front of you.

Let me ask you a question.

Are you interested in becoming the kind of guy who's 'a natural' with women?

My guess is that, yes, you would be. And I'm not talking about some kind of quick-fix magic
bullet, since, if you're truly interested in literally BECOMING great with women - not just ACTING great with them - there ARE no magic bullets. (Sorry about that.)

I'm talking about finding it within yourself to use whatever skills and charisma are lurking in
there (possibly unknown to you, at this present moment) and creating hot, fun, outrageously
successful relationships of whatever nature and length with the females that YOU find attractive.

Not the women your friends want. Not the women you think you 'should' want. But the women that YOU ACTUALLY want. The women that YOU think of as being 'incredible'.

(Why? Because this is about learning to shuck off the dusty old social masks that so many guys out there are using, and being your REAL self to attract the females YOU WANT. No side-stepping or B.S. permitted, in your behavior or your goals.)

I don't have to tell you that women are different from us. There are things they do that
make no sense to us at all. Our brains are "wired" differently - just ask any neurobiologist.

So it falls to me to lead you down the path of 'what happens inside the female brain' ... to give you the science, the statistics, and exact conclusions you need to apply your insider
knowledge to ANY woman.

Over the next couple days, here's what's going to happen:

- You'll find out why women are the way they are, and what it means for YOU.

- You'll find out how to spark attraction in a female... how to get to a more intimate level
quickly ... and how to keep that spark going as long as you want.

- You'll learn how to keep a relationship from getting boring or too serious ... how to keep your partner from changing for the worse ... and how to feel so secure in how she feels about you that you don't have to worry about ANY other guy.

Let me give you a blow-by-blow breakdown of how we're going to proceed over the next week.


Every system has a foundation. Some guys base their seduction science on NLP; others say that it all comes down to the approach and building rapport. There are yet other guys who focus on beingentertaining and demonstrating value.

Our foundation here at is a little different. I'm not interested in giving you the 'quick fix' (which, incidentally, is usually the FALSE fix.)

It's going to make you better at LIFE.

So, here's the deal ...

Over the next week, you're going to become familiar with the three core principles necessary
to rid you of unwholesome and limiting 'old-style' beliefs pertaining to FEMALES and YOURSELF ... and as a result, you're going to experience a quantum shift in the kind of success you experience with women, and with life in general.


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