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The Traveling Leaf
After my last post things have been pretty quiet. There have been the usual "ding-bat" text message, emails etc. She is still not allowed on the property but continues to try and find her way back in to control the household that she was once a member of.
Last Thursday we arrived home from work to find that there was no hyper little dog to greet us. It was the ex's day to pick up her son. Not only did she take her son but she alos took the younger of the two dogs that lives with us. One of the dogs that she left in 2008 after she cheated and left
A few text message were exchanged and she once again has taken something from this house that doesn't belong to her. She was advised that there will no longer be unsupervised pick ups or drop offs. She turned this into a custody battle and adivsed that the boy stated that he wants to live with her full time (lie) and how that is going to cost his father. I don't get why money seems to run her life. That's all she seems to care about. It seems that she had a child with the man that I am now inlove with just so that she would have security.
The dog was returned the following Saturday when the boy came home.
She picked up her son again yesterday. She went against our wishes and showed up at the house when we were not home. If she can get out of work early just to defy her son's Fahter's request then she can get out of work early enough to pick the boy up at school on her days.
This is the email she sent after she got home. This is how she is utilizing her time with her son.
I have xxxxxxxxx. I retrieved him from your house and remained well within my liberties by parking on the street so as not to touch your property. However, I feel compelled to notify you that we did take something from the premises. Well, we actually didn't know that we took it. When we got to our house, I was getting out of the car and I noticed a leaf on the side of the door. Now I know my leafs and this leaf was clearly a Scarborough leaf. And to expand even further, I am almost certain that it was a leaf that fell from a tree that hovers on your property. Therein lies my dilemma. I have something that I inadvertently took from your property and I just want you to be assured that I have every intention of returning it to you. I cannot commit to returning it in the same condition as it was just before if flew from your lawn on to my car door. This I regret. If you'd like, when I return the leaf that is clearly yours, I will include a leaf that is clearly mine, as a trade and as an extension of good faith. Please let me know if this is acceptable. Hopefully we are able to work through this tragic circumstance without having to involve Scarborough's finest.
This email is clearly harassment and when it's proven to be harassment by "Scarborough's finest" hopefully she'll stop. "Scarborough's finest" as well as her town's finest have been contacted and have contacted her in the past. She obviously didn't take it seriously. Maybe she will when charges are filed against her.