The truth about Thailand girls and Thai girl scams
Tricky Thailand Girls, what exactly are they, how do you know one and what can you do about it if you think you might be caught with one?
Well you know I have spent a lot of time in Thailand over the last few years and I have come to understand a lot about the so called Thai girl scams. The truth is the actual scams are not that common, no more so than Russian bride scams, Nigerian scams or anything of that nature. What is more common is out and out lying by Thai girls to western men and so if you think you may have a situation on your hands with a Thai girl that you are not sure you can trust then this article may be a good read for you.
The problem is that many of the western men who go to Thailand in search of a beautiful Thai girlfriend or wife go looking in all the wrong places. They also become completely hypnotized by the whole Thai look and sweet exterior nature of Thai girls and even when they are blatantly being lied to many men simply don't want to believe it's true. It's a hard pill to swallow and its quite understandable in some ways because where else can you find a petite, pretty young girl half your age who talks and smiles sweetly to you and will sleep with you for the price of a happy meal?
I'm sorry if that sounds harsh and a little crass but the truth is the truth and I didn't set out to write this article only to gloss over the realities because really what would be the point?
So what do these tricky Thailand girls get up to then?
Well in a nutshell many of these girls will simply lie to you to get you to give them money on a regular basis. It's a kind of twist really on the oldest game in town. You meet the girl, you sleep with her a few times and fall head over heels in love or lust, one of the two. She promises to not see any other men and you believe her, why? because you want to!. You send her money every month and plan for a future together.
Meanwhile she is doing the same thing with another man from another country or maybe more than one other man. She will insist she is not and she has given all that up and you are the only one for her and you will be so besotted with her you actually try to beleive her. You start believing you can change her life and be her knight in shining armor and she will let you go on believing that as long as you are sending her money.
This is the harsh reality I'm afraid
The fact is when you spend any amount of time in Thailand and get to know real Thai people you will learn that Thai men will not look twice at these girls, certainly not for any kind of serious relationship anyway. Basically you are in a relationship with a type of prostitute, it's just that they seem different to what you know in your own country. For some reason the look of many of these girls is very attractive to western men and so they are easily caught in the venus fly trap so to speak.
What is important to understand for western men is this industry is not organised so much like it is in the West. Many of these girls work independently and there are many levels of it and this can make it very difficult to spot sometimes because some of these girls can actually act and appear quite normal. This is why they are labelled as Thai girl scams.
I don't know if you feel shocked by this. Maybe you are reading this and wondering now if your Thai girlfriend is really just with you for money, not sure if you can trust her or not. Or maybe you know what she used to do and now you hope she will give up her old ways all for you and the chance of a new life.
Whatever the case I suggest if you have a Thai girlfriend and you are not sure if she is genuine or not then you can try getting some Thai Girlfriend advice from the various websites that discuss these issues before you get too involved and it is too late.