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There is a right and wrong way to love someone

Updated on February 1, 2008

The Right Way

Is there truly a right and wrong way to love someone? Of course there is. When you truly love someone it's natural to do what's right. What is right?- you might ask....It's everything that makes and keeps your mate happy.

10 Right Ways to love Someone

  1. Try to grant simple requests. Ex...if you mate ask you for a massage after a long day at work
  2. If you say you're going to do something, do it
  3. Always tell your mate you love them
  4. Always include you mate in everything
  5. Never hit and/or abuse your mate -verbally, physically or emotionally
  6. Listen to your mate and offer your advice
  7. Always be on your mate's side, even if their wrong
  8. Always be honest, don't lie
  9. Don't keep secrets - a person that hides nothing, has nothing to hide
  10. Don't allow anyone to speak badly of your mate

The Wrong Way

When you're doing wrong, you're okay with it until your mate finds out. Making smart choices and resolving old issues early, insures you won't be begging for forgiveness later. Sometimes it's easier to do wrong than right, but if the love is will bring you home at night.

10 Wrong Ways to love Someone

  1. Cheating on your mate
  2. Telling your mate lies and keeping secrets
  3. Not standing on your word
  4. Picking fights out of the blue
  5. Criticizing, abusing and/or cursing you mate, look fat
  6. Letting your friends speak badly to your mate
  7. Having a wandering eye
  8. Putting your friends before your mate
  9. Always leaving your mate at home while you're out at the club
  10. Telling your mate you want out of the relationship all the time

Life is all about choices. If you choose to do the right things to love them, then in return you should find happiness as well. If you choose to do the wrong things, then you both lose. Someone once said, "I love her and I try to treat her the right way; but I cheat a little- is that so wrong", yes it is. Love is love and it's not always the devil that makes you do it because there is a right way to love someone.



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      4 years ago

      This is very helpful advice thank you so much

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      6 years ago

      Carefull is love , Time spend is love

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      Dr Atwater 

      6 years ago

      We doctors don't know everything we want to know everything when we care and we don't know how to solve a problem. Your article is worthy of recognition. It applies to me in relationship with my wife and my sons who I have not seen in many ,many , many many years. Too long and too painful.

      Your article has been very helpful to me. No poetry. Factual . To the point.



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      7 years ago

      well i done all the right things an done right by my i still got hurt i kinda feel dumb cause i stayed with him through it all an forgave him.then he turned around an done it again an it seems like all i can do is cry an cry myself to sleep.i love him with all my heart an i stuck with him through a lot an look were it got me.what am i to do about that situation???

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      7 years ago

      That's what i needed to here. Thanks

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      8 years ago

      Do you realize that the advice "Take your mate's side, even if they're wrong", and the point "Always be honest, don't lie" contradict each other?

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      8 years ago

      That was very helpful, thank you.Have a nice day.:)


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