- Gender and Relationships
Things women do that piss off men
Have any of these situations applied to you?
What irritates you?
Have you ever been irritated with your significant other and thought if anyone else has the same problems in their relationships? Well, as it turns out it may not just be in you, but in millions of relationships across the U.S.A. As it turns out, there are certain traits and habits that men and women have in common within their gender. I had asked the question; “What are the things woman do that piss you off” to a large quantity of random guys in their twenties located all over America. I then asked the opposing question to women who were also in their twenties. We will start off with the things woman do to irritate men.
Men, how often is your woman upset because you didn’t do something that she claims she told you? It seems like all the time. You then refute that she has ever mentioned it, she then says “I told you while you were playing Call of Duty, working, taking a shower”. Now it all makes sense, coming in at #1 Telling you things when you’re doing something. Does it really make sense to whisper through a door that you’re parents are on their way over and taking a cough as a sign of recognition, probably not. So don’t get upset with us when we don’t know what’s going on. It seems that woman purposely wait for the worst times to tell you something.
I was watching house hunters the other day and the couple buying the house could not come to an agreement. The man was being rational, as most men are. As for the woman she kept complaining that she didn’t have that “magic feeling” as if the sky would clear and the flowers would bloom when it happened. She would not even listen to her husband who was being sensible about the realities of the situation. #2 Is being stubborn & Uncoopertaive, It is completely frustrating because they always have to have their way. I could only laugh and sympathize for this man for I know what he is going through.
#3 is “Having to pay for sex” It may be roses, drinks at a bar, jewelry, or a washing machine. In the end we always have to “buy” sex. It is extortion, and it is what all women have in common. God help you if you should “mess up” as you won’t be having sex for the next month. Most of the time men are always in the mood for sex, but 90 percent of the time it never happens. So they wait until they feel like doing it and blame you when you last two minutes. Of course you ask if they would like to do it again the answer always being no.
When women ask you “what do you want to do” or “what do you want to eat” you tell them what you want. But, then #4 they don’t want it and complain about it. Why ask us what we want to do if you hate everything that we choose. Women expect men to cater to their needs and wants even when they ask what we want. We might as well say “I want to buy you jewelry, give you a massage, and eat at your favorite restaurant “Don’t worry, I’m paying”. If you don’t like what we have to offer, don’t ask.
When something is wrong do you sit down and talk about you’re problems? Of course not, when issues arise chances are your woman turns into a brick wall, but worse because you have to look at her snarky faces. #5 is Women shutting down when they are upset. It’s slightly ironic in its self that they always want to talk and yet once they don’t get their way they make you feel like you are the one at fault. Of course you show compassion and ask them what is wrong? In that snarky voice they say “nothing is wrong, I’m completely fine. How do you think we resolve the issue if you don’t want to tell us what’s wrong? It is always apparent that there IS something wrong.
Women all over should applaud men for what they put up with, #6 When you make the money, you share the money. When they make some money it’s their money. It is ridiculous that we go out of our way to ensure our women are happy. Yet, when they make a dollar it is theirs. The sense of entitlement is killing men throughout the nation. The same can be said when they expect you to do things for them. Yet, when it’s time for them to reciprocate they don’t want to and expect special thanks even when they don’t give you one.
“Oh no it’s fine, don’t get me anything” #7 WHY DIDN’T YOU GET ME ANYTHING?!?! Men are many things, but psychic is not one of them. So much could be resolved if you just stopped beating around the bush and just tell us what you want. Most importantly, make sure that when you tell us is an appropriate time to do so.
The last one on the list is a common complaint of both sexes, #8 Infidelity. The double standard that men cheat more than women is being eliminated every day. It is all too often that I hear of women cheating on their significant other. In some of those cases, the men would be deployed and their women are sleeping with “Jody”. Men are just as much to blame as women, but, let us eliminate the notion that all women are angels. In fact, women are more armed to be able to cheat than men.
There you have it, the top things that women do that irritate men. But, it takes two to tango, in other words, men are also a part of the problem. Be sure to read "Things Men do to Irritate Women" and feel free to leave your experiences in the comments below as I do enjoy reading them. Stay tuned for more of my hubs about Gender & Relationships.
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