- Gender and Relationships
This Article Could Change Your Life
You're the love of your Life
In society we're taught that we need to look outside of ourselves for our true love. We're taught that in order to live life to the fullest we need someone else to complete us. This couldn't be further from the truth. There is no one out there who can complete you. The only reason people think they are being completed is because they allow themselves to feel completed. We have the ability to feel anything we want at any moment we want. There is nothing keeping us from being completely in love. YOU DON'T NEED AN EXTERNAL STIMULUS IN ORDER TO FEEL GOOD.
That's the secret. Use your imagination and allow the feelings to rush in. You don't have to wait to be in love, you can do it right now. That is the big secret. I see so many people running around trying to find the one who will complete them. They all get upset in relationships. It doesn't have to be that way. All you have to do is allow the feelings to be part of who you are. I'm serious try it out for size, see how you feel. Think about being a whole person because you are a whole person. The opposite sex doesn't have the ability to complete you.
I'm not saying that you have to give up on finding someone. I'm saying just the opposite. The outer world is a reflection of our inner state of being. If you're whole on the inside, then you will attract a reflection of that on the outside. Imagine a relationship where you don't feel the need to control another person because you are already a whole functioning being that doesn't need to live through someone else. Isn't that the way to be?
You will have the choice of being in a relationship, or not being in one, it's up to you. You're whole anyway, so it doesn't matter which one you choose. Fourth density relationships are a lot more loving than third density relationships. Third density is characterized by separateness, fourth density is characterized by integration. To learn about what densities are, follow the link, or copy and paste the following, http://www.worldtrans.org/lyssa/density.htmlit.
It's as easy as 1-2-3
When you love yourself, the world loves you in return. Go to a mirror and look yourself in the face. Tell the mirror how much you love that reflection. Don't spot any lack in your image. Men think they are ugly because they are taught that women have all the beauty. Women are taught that they are fragile, and need a man to protect them. Inside each of us is both a woman and a man. Carl Jung calls it the anima and animus.
We project our unconscious image of our opposite sex personality onto people in the outside world and we think endow them with imaginary qualities. Have you ever found yourself being way into someone without even knowing them? That means that you projected your anima or animus onto them. Do yourself a favor and withdraw that projection from the outside world back into yourself. Be your own projection. Once you let go of the idea that another person will complete you, you will live happily ever after, trust me.