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Tips For Successful Marriage - How A Husband May have Joyful Moments with His Opposite Sex Partner be Satisfied
Tips for Successful Marriage
There are number of factors which play their role in the success or failure of a marriage. Some are very commonly known while others have not yet been highlighted or debated much. I can ensure you a happy married life if you following instructions given below:
1. The first thing both the spouses should keep in mind is that their relationship is for life. They are life partners in real sense. Only death could now separate them. All their future interests should be similar to each other. Their relationship is based on love but at the same time they have to tolerate some habits of the other which may not be liked by one of the life partner.
2. For a happy marriage, one basic thing that is required to be understood by both husband and wife is that it is not possible for his/ her spouse to act exactly according to the desires /expectations of the others. One should give room for other to make mistake and deviate from what you expect from him.
2. For happy marriage you must understand that your spouse is a human not a pet that could be tamed to act according to your directions. Each life partner should show flexibility and express feelings of love, affection, tolerance and reconciliation to each other. They should share their feelings with each other. They should not bury the feeling in the heart as very tiny things could cause big misunderstandings which could cause diverse and end of relationship. Such a situation can be prevented just by sharing the viewpoints with each other. If you dislike some habits of your life partner which are intolerable please explain her/him and in very soft warded request her to prevent such acts/omissions.
3. For happy marriage, you must appreciate that every human possesses qualities and shortcomings at the same time. So we should learn to praise the qualities and ignore the shortcomings, as much as we can. If we keep this aspect in mind the chances of enjoying happy married life are very high.
4. The next thing which is essential for a happy marriage is that the husbands should ratify their mistaken point of view that wives are just a tool to satisfy their humanly desires. So in the early days of their marriage most husbands ignore this very vital point. Excess of everything is bad and it is not only harmful for their manly health but also cause a break in their marriage relationship. After sometime when they lost their energy now it becomes impossible for them to satisfy the emotions of their life partner. So one should not make love for more than twice in a month.
5. Next thing to remember for a happy marriage is that; foreplay is very important for a joyful emotional moments for both husband and wife. Husbands should not take a jump-start. This will left their partner dissatisfied and will poison your married life. It is a proven fact that women have lesser emotional passion as compared to men, so they take longer to get ready. Tickling, rubbing, squeezing, sweet dialect and kissing should be the first step to take a start to enjoy happy marriage.
6. Husband and wife should keep in their mind that they will endure this relationship till death. Thereafter, taking interest in opposite gender, other than your spouse is a great sin. In East, in most cases the husband and wife met for the first time on their honeymoon night but their marriage, in most cases, last till death. On the other hand, in West, where there are certain meetings and counseling before marriage, the separation is very common. The reason, to me, is that they consider emotional moments much importance in their married life and do not give due important to each and every aspect of their relationship.
7. To enjoy a happy marriage the husbands should keep in mind that wife is a partner in all spheres of your life. The spouses are partners in all events of happiness, sorrows, successes and failures etc.
8. Both husband and wife should keep in their mind that they will endure this relationship till death . Thereafter, taking interest in opposite sex is a great sin. In East, in most cases the husband and wife met for the first time on their honey mood night but their marriage, in most cases, last till death. On the other hand, where there are certain meetings and counseling before marriage, the separation is very common.
9. The reason of the failure of marriage to me is that they consider sex the most important thing in their marriage life. The separation is only justified if there is too much difference in the dispositions of husband and wife, which could not be abridged.
10. According to the Islamic teaching divorce is the most disliked action which is permitted by God. So the divorce should be the last resort and not the first option.