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Tips for lovers

Updated on March 26, 2017
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I am Merouane.I am an English university student.I have been writing in English for ages: I write short stories, poems, articles, essays.

There are many things that should be taken into consideration if you really want to have a good love story with your partner.Below, there are ten tips that can help you have a good realtion with your lover.

1/THE FIRST TIP: never tell your partner he/she is not the right person for you.

Telling your partner he/she is not the right person for you is completely irrational and so stupid.If he/she is not the right person for you, so why did you choose to be with him/her?You had ample time to think before you chose to be with your partner, so never ever say such thing to them, for if there is anyone to be told that, it is rather you, not your partner.

2/THE SECOND TIP: be sincere in your feelings towards your partner.

Never pretend you love your partner when you do not.Be sincere to them.You can never imagine how bad it is to find that the person you love is just playing you.So, for the love of god, be sure that you really love your partner, or just leave him/her.In doing so you will hurt them, but it will be better than he/she finding out all the years he/she spent with you have been just a game.

3/THE THIRD TIP: highly respect your partner.

Never ever insult or curse at your partner, for you have to know that in a relation between two lovers, respect is more important than love itself, and try as much as you can to never let bad words have a room in your language while talking to your partner.There is a very important point about respecting your partner that I want to tell you: never tell your partner you respect him/her.Instead, show them you respect them in your actions.

4/THE FOURTH TIP: let your partner be what you most care about.

Some lovers have lots of problems just because they do not care a lot about each other.So, try to show your partner, in your actions, that they are the only thing and person you care about.For example, if your partner aks to take you for dinner, but you have so many tasks to do, do not tell them you have tasks that need to be done in a short time and you are so busy and so on.Go! Without a minute of hesitation.Make them feel you care more than they can never imagine about them.Make them feel they are important to you.

5/THE FIFTH TIP: have eyes only for your partner.

Never have a wandering eye.Have fixed eyes on your partner.See only your partner.Yes, there are other people who are more attractive and beautiful than your partner because no one is perfect, but you have to know that every beauty has a flow, and before looking at anyone as being more beautiful than your partner, just remember that the first time you saw your partner, he/she was the most beautiful person you ever saw.So, you see those people more beautiful than your partner just because you do not know their imperfections.Therefore, fix your eyes on your partner alone.

6/THE SIXTH TIP: never cheat on your partner.

Cheating on your partner is unforgivable.Why would you cheat on them?are they not perfect? you are not as well, and no one is.Do not think your partner is stupid.They will find out if you cheat on them, because we naturally become different when we do bad things, and meanwhile if there is something wrong about someone, we naturally can feel it.So, if you cheat on your partner, just be sure that today or tomorrow, they will find out, and all you have been through together, will be gone and forever.

7/THE SEVENTH TIP: never lie to your partner.

Lies kill love.Even if it is a harmless lie, just do not lie to them.Because if you lie to them once, you will do it twice, thrice...So, never lie to them.Let them know it no matter what it is.Never hide anything from them.If they find out that you lie to them, suppose what? Of course they will do the same thing.Then your relation will be a series of lies that never end.Remember, fire starts with a small flame.So, a small lie can result in dangerously bad consequences.

8/THE EIGHTH TIP: have no secrets between you and your partner.

Secrets, just like lies, kill love.A very important part of love is sharing your whole life with your partner, therefore, sharing your secrets with them.We all have secrets that we do not want others to know, but you and your partner are not two persons, you are one person.Two bodies, but one person, so your secrects are theirs as well.Tell them your secrets, and believe me, they will hide nothing from you.That is the nature of human beings.

9/THE NINTH TIP: don't be so thirsty for your partner's body.

Yes, love your partner's body and fancy it, but do not show your partner that you care only about his/her body.Every now and then you ask them to lie down with you.It is quite abnormal.They will get tired of that.Instead, try to make them miss you, but what is important here is that you should not be too thirsty for your lover's body, and meanwhile do not let them die waiting for you to ask them to lie down with you.So, let it be in between, but never be too thirsty for your partner's body.

10/THE TENTH TIP: love your partner's soul, not the body.

Yes, love your partner's body.That is good, but what you should love more is their soul.If you love your partner's body more than their soul, your love story will not last forever because we, human beings, age, which means ten years after you met your lover, they will not be the same.Therefore, they will not be as beautiful and attractive as they were when you first loved them.So, if you really love your partner, be sure to love their soul because it will be always so beautiful as it was when you first met them.Our body changes, but our essence remains as it is.


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      dashingscorpio 13 months ago

      Ultimately the goal is to find someone who shares your same values, wants the same things for the relationship that you do, naturally agrees with you on how to obtain those things, and last but not least have a mutual depth of love and desire for one another. Compatibility trumps compromise.

      Like attracts like and opposites attract divorce attorneys!

      If your or your mate has to change your "core being" in order to make a relationship "work" it probably means you are with the wrong person. People want to be loved for who (they) are.

      It's impossible to truly be happy if you can't be yourself!

      There are only two ways to experience joy and peace of mind in relationships: We either get what we want or we learn to be happy with what we have. Accept them (as is) or move on.

      Thankfully we live on a planet with over (7 Billion) people!

      Odds are in everyone's favor there are lots of people who want the same things you want in a relationship. No need to settle.

      "Never love anyone who treats you like you're ordinary."

      - Oscar Wilde