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Always Strive to Give Your Family The Very Best of You

Updated on February 11, 2018

How to Make Your Family Better

No other social group can be more important than your family. Family life plays a very important role in our lives. Our family life is very crucial to our spiritual, intellectual, and physical well-being. Associates, friends, and mentors all have their valuable place in your life. Yet, if you are not bonded to the people you come home to every night, you will still feel uneasy or probably a little sad.

Without a good relationship in the home, it can leave individuals in a general state of chaos. It can help to improve family life, showing love for the individual members. It is vital that there is unconditional love in the household. Now, that doesn’t mean that things will always be perfect. There will be days of frustration. But, we all have them. However, even in the midst of these times, let love exist. There are many ways this can be expressed. The individuals can hug one another, tell them how much they are appreciated, write them a poem, or just say simply “I love you.” There are many ways our feelings can be conveyed to others. But, it is so important. With the speed of life today, it is easy to get caught up in our own lives.

Consistently give praise to each family member. Praise the family consistently good behavior, reaching a goal, making an accomplishment, or building a skill. Highlight a particular strength that a family member possesses. For instance, you can say, “I appreciate that you have such a good memory.” Or “You are terrific problem-solver.”

Lessen negative comments about family members. Commit to saying fewer negative comments about a family member’s weak character traits. True, we all have areas in your character that need to be changed. Nevertheless, do not constantly remind a family member about weak character traits in a way that shows you are belittling him or her.

Eating together occasionally is important. Some families don’t ever eat together or if they do, it’s in a rush or in front of the television. Having dinner together give each family member an opportunity to find out about each other’s lives, and develops listening skills for the parents.

Have family meetings. Use thirty minutes to an hour and discuss what is going well with family life and what areas need to be improved. Give each person in the family an opportunity to voice his or her concerns about the topics that are discussed during the family meeting.

Family like career plans, health and fitness goals. Similar to your packed work schedule, make sure you put in time and energy for your family. It is easy to slip into taking your family members for granted. “She knows I love her.” Does she? When last did you tell her you love her and what you love about her? “He is my dearest.” Are you sure he is aware of that? It is wrong to assume he does. Tell him. “The kids know I love them.” Are you sure they do? Say it and prove it by your actions. Spend quality time with them.

It has long been established that it is important to read to their children. Reading to your children helps them to develop interest in books, languages and learning. If the child is very small, the experience can be enhanced by asking him or her questions about the book.

Do household work together. Giving each member of the family job to do around the home teaches them responsibility. Doing jobs together also show them the value of teamwork and that you are practicing what you preach.

Help your children with homework this is a great way to show your children you are interested in their school work and are prepared to spend time helping and encouraging them.

Schedule and maintain a weekly family night. Pitch a night out the week where all members can get together to watch a movie, discuss a book or play family games. Monopoly, Scrabble, Whot, and Chess are examples. Scrabble is particularly good for youths because it helps to improve spelling in English language. Make family life a little fun. The best part is an activity that the whole family can participate in. It isn’t about the cost, it is about being together.

Finding a shared hobby or project is another interesting way to enhance your family’s happiness. Choose fun activity that will keep you and your children’s interest. Simple activities such as cooking, painting, and fishing give you a chance to show them another side of your character other than work or disciplining them. It gives you opportunity to communicate with them.

Planning family outings is helpful. Get out of the house and go for a drive with a picnic lunch in the car. Visit your local parks, zoo or beach. It shows your children how much you value them by taking them to somewhere different.

Create a Family Mission Statement. Write down specific morals or principles that you wish your family to uphold. Include how you want your family actions to be seen as a positive role model in your neighborhood or in your city. Have each member put an idea or concept into the document. Then, have each member sign the document to signify his or her agreement regarding what has been written. Consider encouraging each family member to memorize the major components and definitely frame the document and hang in a prominent spot in your home for the family to view it.

However, if one’s family life runs into difficulties, there are steps one can take to improve things. The family must share a mutual respect for each other. This is important because it allows the individuals to freely express their feelings, without any resentment. In some cases, this may be difficult. For example, it is not always easy to deal with teenager going through adolescence. But, if you truly listen to them, you may be surprised at their reactions. This happens with practice.

You can make your home life better, by simplifying things. Sometimes, it is healthier on the family, to live in this type of environment. People seem to feel more comfortable, when their home is not so cluttered.

In conclusion, keep working on building a better family. Everybody within it will breathe easier and be so grateful that your family has the stuff within it to hold it together. In the end, it is up to the family. They must make their choices. The things that work for one family, may not work for another family. It is crucial to put in the effort and sticking with it. The family life will gradually change with time, and contentment will grow.

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