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Todays Society Your Pride
Pride is one of the seven deadly sins but we all have the sin of pride which is normal in todays society, like what I said before there is nobody above sin on this planet not even you and me.
Pride is a good thing in this life for everyone regardless of gender,colour,race and religion but in our situation you should always take pride in being gay because you will find that dealing with whatever situation life brings becomes simpler,
·You have just came out to your family and friends, you must take pride in it because that is the biggest achievement when your gay
·You have had some abusive comments made by bigots and you ignored it
·You just finished with your partner and your proud that you had the courage to leave when you did
·You have been asked out on a date by a man/woman and you normally would say no but this time you said yes.
·You have accepted that you are gay
So think of other good situations that you have done and take pride in them, they do not have to be gay situations maybe something from when you were a child like learning to read and write or tieing your shoe laces the first time and how happy you were when you did it.
In fact I bet you can think of loads right now so reflect on them and be proud because you dealt with it and achieved that, no one did it for you it was you who did it.
So taking pride in being gay should make you feel like that and not upset or distraught like you felt earlier at the beginning of this guide, so smile and reflect back on those moments because that is what I tend to do when I feel a bit upset too, trust me you will feel a lot better inside yourself when you do, and you wont stop at one lots and lots will flood your mind and then the biggest smile will come straight on to your face and the good thing about it is that it will be a genuine one from your eyes.