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Top ten tricks to make your husband happy.

Updated on March 20, 2013

Wifely duties.

Your marriage will be successful only if you learn the trick of adjusting with your husband. Why do today’s modern marriages end in divorce? Husband does not understand his wife and wife does not understand her husband. A man’s world is entirely different from that of a woman and you should be able to get into the shoes of your husband if you want the lovey-dovey lover back into your married life. You should work for the success of your marriage.

  1. When your husband is angry, do not add fuel to his anger by arguing with him. It is better if you keep quiet when he is angry. You can tell him your point of view when his anger subsides. Your husband will have special respect for you if you are able to withstand his anger.
  2. Always be presentable at home as men are great admirers of beauty. You fail to take care of yourself after the birth of your children as you feel that they are your top priority. You should pay special attention in grooming yourself so that you look beautiful always. Do not become flabby after marriage. Do regular exercises and maintain a trim figure.
  3. Pamper your husband with his favorite dish. It is very easy to make your husband love you through his stomach. If you are a woman who always cooks an indifferent meal, then it is time to change. Cook with love and serve with love.
  4. Keep your house clean and neat. You might wonder how an orderly house will help a marriage. A cluttered house makes your husband’s nerves edgy and irritable. When you maintain your house with neatness, your husband feels that you care for him.
  5. Give him the breathing space he needs. If he wants to spend the day with his friends or watch his favorite sports in TV, allow him to do that. Do not crib as to how he does not care for you in not spending the time with you.
  6. Treat his parents with love and respect. He will adore you if you do so. If you back bite about his parents, brothers and sisters, he will hold a grudge against you and show his anger when your parents visit you.
  7. When he is facing a problem, be his companion and share his burden. Do not aggravate his mood by nagging as to how he was the reason for his problem. Even if he is on the fault, do not point fingers at him when he is still raw in his feelings. He needs a shoulder to lean on and you should be able to lend the shoulder he so fervently seeks.
  8. Have a smiling face and make him catch your mood of happiness. If you sport a glum look, he reflects your negative emotions and your marriage becomes terribly boring with two glum faces in the same house. Smiling and happy faces lessens any grim situation and so you should always try to be cheerful.
  9. Do not compare your husband with your colleagues or your relatives. Your husband will hate it. Love him for what he is. If you want him to move up in his job, encourage him positively to work hard to climb up the ladder of success.
  10. Be friendly with your husband so that he feels encouraged to share his feelings with you. Your interaction with him should be such that he does not want to hide anything from you. If he wants to hide his feelings or problems from you, it means he does not trust your reaction.

It is very easy to please your husband if you take efforts to make him feel comfortable at home, emotionally secure about your love, confident about your support, and hundred percent sure of your compatibility and tolerance towards his faults. He reciprocates in giving you the treasured and endless love you seek from him.


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      dr kailas chandra 3 years ago

      so nice of u, thanks. really very helpful now a days crisis.

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      mathira 4 years ago from chennai

      Thank you HattieMattieMae for your visit.

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      mathira 4 years ago from chennai

      You are very lucky Cheryl to have a wonderful husband who is willing to share your work with willingness. This is what love is all about.

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      mathira 4 years ago from chennai

      When a husband is able to see the world of his wife and the wife is able to see the world of her husband it becomes a perfect marriage. Thank you Angela for your comments.

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      mathira 4 years ago from chennai

      KittHill, you are right when you say marriage is a two way path. You give respect and love and get it back from your spouse.

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      mathira 4 years ago from chennai

      Marriage is always a mutual commitment between couples and what a husband expects in his wife can also be expected from him by his wife.

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      mathira 4 years ago from chennai

      Eidwenn, thank you.

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      KittHill 4 years ago

      I agree that it is a two way street. If my husband wants these things, he needs to show me the same respect. We were created equal. Men who think women are objects have no business being married. I do not understand women who think it is fine to be treated that way.

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      HattieMattieMae 4 years ago from Limburg, Netherlands

      Very good advice i might have to say. :)

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      Cheryl A Whitsett 4 years ago from Jacksonville, Fl

      Well in my opinion it takes both people to make a marriage work not just the wife to keep her husband interested and as far as anger goes there is no place for anger in a relationship. If he comes home angry then he needs to leave it at the door. My husband and I take care of each other. We clean together, we do things for each other to keep our love alive. Its not always about the wife making sure her husband is happy because many don't.

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      Angela Blair 4 years ago from Central Texas

      Excellent Hub and advice. For a fact, these very things are the glue that held marriages together in the past -- and then along came women's libbers who said "no -- demand your husband do these things for you!" If a woman treats her husband as you suggest -- he'll not only want to - he will reciprocate in kind. Best/Sis

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      Tirralan Watkins 4 years ago from Los Angeles, CA

      Mathira, I like these tips. I think we should continually be investing in our marriages and looking for ways to improve them and love our husband's more!

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      NMLady 4 years ago from New Mexico & Arizona

      Men should do these things for us.

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      Eiddwen 4 years ago from Wales

      I shall keep these in mind Mathira ; great share and voted up.