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Biggest Turn Offs for Men
It is tricky to list things that are: turn offs for men, because that, which is a turn off for one guy, may be a turn on for another. Therefor I have put together a list of common turn offs, that most men can’t stand.
Some of these can really kill a relationship, especially during the first few dates. Maybe it has happened to you? He just doesn’t call back or even worse disappears during the date. Sometimes just changing your behavior a little can stop this problem in it’s tracks.
Too much makeup
This is a really tragic turn off, easily fixed and very common. I frequently see good looking girls that have just gone totally overboard, with the makeup.
Now I have nothing against a little eye shadow and lipstick, but makeup is meant to enhance and ad color to that which is already there. Not to help you put on a completely different face.
We are a hairy species and some guys like that in a girl. In general however I would have to say: shave, wax and pluck to get it under control. Especially before a date.
Humans are the only mammals that sweat, as much as we do. That makes us one of the smelliest species on the planet. You need to bathe regularly to counteract that.
Your body odor can be affected by that which you eat. So go easy on the chilly, garlic and peppers, a week before a date.
Ever kiss someone with really bad breath, bet you didn’t kiss him again. Brush your teeth and floss regularly also go to the dentist every 6 months. Also right before you kiss someone try some mint chewing gum or bite into an apple. This will make your kiss taste great.
Out of shape
Some men like really fat girls, a few guys even like really skinny girls. But most guys like women that are in between those extremes.
To stay in shape, try to get 30 minutes of exercise, every day. Don’t eat highly processed food that is rich in fat and/or sugar. Eat some fruit and vegetables.
What you eat on your dates
Don’t count calories on your dates. Guys don’t like girls who sit there and watch them eat. No need to go overboard, just order a good size meal.
This is one of my pet peeves. I hate it when I order a burger with fries and the girl that I am with orders a burger with no fries. Then I ask “Are you sure that’s going to be enough for you?” Then she says: “Yes, I am trying to watch my figure”. After which she proceeds to eat all my fries. If you want it, order it.
Guys like a girl that can have a couple of glasses of wine with them. It makes for a relaxed fun date. Girls that get drunk out of their minds are a complete turn off for me. So you might want to watch that on your dates.
Sexual turn offs for men
Cold fish in bed
Sex is in fact best when two people are involved. So just lying there isn’t going to cut it. Men prefer passionate women, who want to try new things, in the sack.
Girls that talk during sex
A little dirty talk before sex is great. But during sex guys need to focus on the task at hand. Girls that think this is a great time to talk about their day is a big turn off for men.
I hope you found this article to be fun and informative.