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The Law of Attraction in Marriages
There are about 40 to 50 percent of married couples in the U.S. that end up in divorce. What causes divorce? In my opinion, I strongly believe there are 3 major things that causes a divorce.
1. Lack of Communication
2. Lack of Trust
3. Lack of Love
Because of these 3 major factors there are a lot of negative tensions within marriages; such as arguing, fighting, infidelity, property destruction etc. It seems like when you're married you have no happiness because you are unpleased with your spouse. You feel like you can never communicate with your spouse because he or she will never understand or he or she is too emotionally distraught to understand. You may feel like you've been a great husband or a great wife and he or she can't see that. You may feel unwanted and not attractive enough for your spouse. You may even feel like you just married the wrong person. I'm here to let you know that your marriage CAN be restored and if you take these 5 step principles your life will never be the same.
1. Get rid of all bad thinking and negative thoughts about your spouse.
I'm sure you heard of the scripture, "As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he". If you think and speak negative you will reap negative. Marriage is about loving one another and reaping the goodness of each other words and thoughts. When you express your love and thoughts for your spouse, your spouse starts to feel good and then he or she will start to express their love and thoughts to you. However, you need to think great thoughts and express love to your spouse whether he or she does not think positive thoughts about you. I don't care if your spouse tells you that you are a failure and that he or she does not love you, you will still think highly of your spouse and you will still express love whether he or she is unlovable. It won't be easy at first but the more you do this the more love that will grow inside of you and the more love that you will attract. Always think positive and always think on things above.
2. Let your feelings match up to your thoughts.
It is very important that your feelings are in line with your thoughts. For example, you can think that you are rich but your feelings say that you are broke. Your feelings and thoughts are contradicting each other and that's a problem. If you are thinking that my marriage is restore then you need to feel that your marriage is restored. A strong feeling attached to a positive thought is very magnetic to the universe. If you're thinking I want to be sexually fulfilled in my marriage then you need to feel that you are sexually fulfilled. If you're thinking that my spouse communicates better with me then you need to feel like your spouse is communicating better. What you are doing is putting your positive feelings and thoughts into action. For every action there is a reaction so when you are thinking and feeling something that has not yet existed, it has to come to present.
3. Visualize what you want.
It is imperative that you visualize yourself daily about the happiness in your marriage. Whatever it is that you desire in your marriage you need to visualize and believe what you are visualizing. Visualizing what you want to happen in your marriage is actually a key that is opening the doors of your destiny. It's like your vision is speaking what you desire into existence. No matter how bad your marriage is, you need to visualize what you want to happen in your marriage. Visualize it when you go to bed, visualize it during work breaks, whenever you get the time make room to visualize it. You need to visualize til you can actually feel what you are visualizing.
4. Be Thankful.
Be thankful for your spouse. In spite of how he or she acts around you still be thankful for your spouse. The more grateful you are the more you receive. It works in the same way as metal being attracted to a magnet. Your gratitude is like metal and the universe is your magnet. Every time you are thankful the universe is magnetized even more for you to receive. Not being thankful will put you in the same messed up situation or you can lose whatever you are not thankful. Remember and always remember to be thankful even when your spouse is not thankful for you.
5. Walk the walk.
Your last step is to walk into your destiny. Walk as if your marriage has already been restored. When your spouse tries arguing with you just smile at him or her and give your spouse a huge kiss. If you feel like your spouse don't love you no more then still show unlimited love to him or her knowing that love conquers everything. If your spouse is unloyal/cheating you still show unlimited love. I heard the saying once a cheater always a cheater but I've seen a male whore transform into the most faithful man ever. It is possible! Walk not in defeat but walk like you have the victory!
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