ArtsAutosBooksBusinessEducationEntertainmentFamilyFashionFoodGamesGenderHealthHolidaysHomeHubPagesPersonal FinancePetsPoliticsReligionSportsTechnologyTravel
  • »
  • Gender and Relationships»
  • Advice & Tips for Women in Relationships

Ugly is the Old Beautiful

Updated on October 16, 2011

Bridesmaids

Annie in the movie "Bridesmaids"
Annie in the movie "Bridesmaids"
Helen
Helen


In the new movie, Bridesmaids, one of the best parts is a car scene between two nemeses which goes like this:

Helen (The perfect woman who has it all, including your best friend): “What are you smiling at?”

Annie (The funny, quirky one with nothing to lose because she has already lost it all): “Nothing, it’s just that I’ve never seen you look ugly before. You’re an ugly crier.”

Commence, female bonding.

Okay, maybe that wasn’t the funniest part of the movie. Seriously, that movie will make you wet your pants. But there is something about ugly that draws us in, that makes us feel safe. It’s as if we can’t let someone into our home nor our heart, until we know they’re a little messy too. If you don’t believe me, then think about this... You know the guy who came here to make Heaven more accessible and become your best friend; ugly. That’s right, ugly. You know how it goes, “U-G-L-Y you ain’t got no alibi. Ugly, ugh ugh, yeah ugly!" All jokes aside though, one must wonder why our Savior came to us the way he is described here in Isaiah 52:14-53:3,

“Just as there were many who were appalled at him- his appearance was so disfigured beyond that of any man and his form marred beyond human likeness…He had no beauty or majesty to attract us to him, nothing in his appearance that we should desire him… (NIV)”

It’s all speculation, but beyond wanting to give anyone excuses for his rising popularity from then ‘til now, I believe his ugliness identified with ours so that we could identify with him. Underneath all the hairspray and makeup, or sunglasses and cologne, we are all begrudgingly aware of the parts of ourselves we choose not to let anyone else see, for fear they will despise our ugliness as much as we do. But when someone is willing to not only own their own stuff, but let down the “first class curtain” for all to see, a funny thing happens. We connect. We trust. We grow.

Jesus didn’t have to become human, he chose to. He chose to live in His weakness rather than above ours. What is more beautiful than that?


Bridesmaids movie (link below)
Bridesmaids movie (link below)

Comments

    0 of 8192 characters used
    Post Comment

    • profile image

      richard fox 5 years ago

      brilliantly written and so true i wish more people were as aware of that as they should be

    • profile image

      SanXuary 5 years ago

      Becoming who you our should not be shaped by what you our stuck being. The Bible discusses diet, work, laziness and many other issues. I think the struggle for acceptance is a easy out, rather then working towards the truth and over coming the life they force us to live.

    • profile image

      Kristie 5 years ago

      Good stuff Christy, and so, so true..

    • Christy Stewart profile image
      Author

      Christy Stewart 5 years ago from Oklahoma

      That's awesome Liz. You have been a light in this world as long as I have known you :)

    • profile image

      Liz Houser 5 years ago

      You hit it right on the nail! It encourages me all the more to tell people who I really am and how Christ as transformed me into something I never could have been on my own. :)

    • Christy Stewart profile image
      Author

      Christy Stewart 5 years ago from Oklahoma

      Thanks Kim!

    • profile image

      Kim Feighner 5 years ago

      This one is a good one Christy! So true yet so hard to do.