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Why Women Cheat on Their Marriages
WHY WOMEN HAVE AFFAIRS
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WHY WOMEN STRAY
Why do women stray in marriages? Women have affairs for many reasons. Women want to be loved, respected, and admired.
Women want to be sexually alluring to their mates. They want to be a part of their husbands lives. Women want love, kissing, and foreplay!
Some men have not been sexually sensitive to their wife's needs. Some men, have a pattern of slam bamming, their wives without any sensual touching.They have used sex only to fulfill their own needs, without any regard for their wife's feelings.
When women marry, they expect that they will be loved by their husbands. Ah therein lies the problem..Often they are not..Some are just trophy wives. Their husbands only care how they look to the outside world.
Often women are looking for someone like their dad, or unlike their dad..Some are secure, and some are insecure..Some have been treated well, and some have not..
They buy into the fairy tales that some charming handsome prince is going to sweep them off their feet and love only them. They want their husbands to shower them with love and praise!
They soon fall into wedded bliss, all dressed up in sexy lingerie, and hot lovemaking, which soon turns into a scene from taming of the shrew!
Candlelit dinners and wine come to a grinding halt. Romantic passionate encounters end, and evenings out with their selected mate soon disappears into the foggy mists, in which they came.
Conversations lag, as their beloved mate makes a beeline for Internet connections with friends, and secret private connections with beautiful young lasses!
Disillusionment rears its ugly head, and everything unlike love shows up in the relationship. Indifference, arguments, jealousy, viciousness, secrets, lies and ancient hatreds rise to the surface.
Soon one is the victimizer and the other plays the victim. It becomes a vicious cycle, where no one wins.
.Accusations, and defenses fills the air with broken dreams
.Disenchanted, the husband soon seeks out another..
He neglects his wife.
The wife feels lonely and seeks out affection and romance with someone she can talk to. Someone who really admires, and loves her.
Some wives cheat for revenge! They want there husbands to feel the pain, they feel, when their husband strays. Some men do not feel emotions like women do, until its been done to them.
Once a man cheats, it's a whole new ballgame. It feels as if all the rules have been changed. The woman no longer feels inclined to follow the rules!
An affair is thrilling, and its a wonderful high. A woman will usually try to tell her husband, there's a problem before an affair occurs.
If he's cold or indifferent, she may feel she has no choice. If a wife feels neglected, she becomes vulnerable, and can easily succumb to having an emotional or physical affair.
She doesn't feel connected to her husband. She needs the intimacy she is not receiving from her husband.The other man compliments the wife!
Some women have affairs, as a way of leaving the marriage.. Its called an "escape hatch"
If she has children, the wife may have a hard time leaving her marriage. Men are less tolerant of their wives having affairs, even if he is also unfaithful.
Usually most men will seek out divorce, when their wives stray.
Some women are bored with their sex life, and feeling lonely, they crave affection and intimate touch. They seek out passionate, fiery encounters.
Some seek out old boyfriends or lovers to recreate their youth with someone they once loved. It makes them feel sexier, and younger.
Some seek out affairs, when they've become ill, or when they have experienced a near death experience. A near death experience cause women to rethink their lives.
They look at their life in greater depth, reminded of their mortality. Feeling let down by their husbands, when they needed them the most, they feel wounded.
They start seeking for a soul mate, someone who is sensitive and loving. They may even fall in love with the other man.
The wife has a need to be validated. If she'd had a loving, caring, compassionate husband, she would not have reached out to the other man.
A happily married woman who has a good relationship with her husband will not stray.
If the husband is willing to forgive, and love his wife unconditionally, then they're marriage has a chance of succeeding.
They may need the help of a marriage counselor, clergy, or a good friend to help them heal from the infidelity.
Infidelity is a call for help. If the husband truly listens to his wife's call for help without anger or malice, then he just might experience feelings of peace and happiness, in his marriage. If he chooses not to forgive her, then he's going to repeat the lesson again, with her or someone else..
In the process, of forgiveness he just might heal his relationship with his wife.
As they say, "the past is gone'
If not the marriage may be doomed.
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