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So, You Want a Girlfriend?
If you are a boy or a man, who is desperate to get a girlfriend and have landed on this page, “I’m sorry folks; we are not talking about dating or finding a girlfriend here!” Then what are we going to talk about? Well, it’s a tough question. Let’s find out.
Girlfriend’s once used to be a man’s support. His only way of expressing his feelings freely and absolving from the high-o-high bosses expectations. The manly pride could never stand anywhere in front of her and the man always welcomed his head on her warm lap. A man had always loved being cared for. The small things that matter have always been there too. “Could you stop smoking for me?” or “Don’t drink too much at the party tonight.”
With changing times, the definition of a girlfriend has also changed. It’s a status symbol now.” You don’t have a girlfriend!!!?”, “What a jerk you are!” People make weird faces when they hear, “I never had a girlfriend” or “I haven’t found that special person yet.” And if you haven’t lost your virginity by the age of 18, you have to be the worst looking guy at high school.
I know what you are thinking. “What are you trying to say?”, It’s simple enough to answer that with just another question, “Where are we heading…?” A group of people which god believed to be his best creations ever are now racing for the Popularity Olympics.
The other day while I was chatting with friends on facebook, my eyes caught attention to an advertisement. The header of the advertisement asked “Want a girlfriend?” Like just another teenager I clicked on the link. What happened? I was immediately sent to cupid.com, a site for the love seekers. And I contributed to facebook’s ever increasing treasuries. This is when I thought of writing a hub on this subject.
The image on the right shows the growth rate of google searches on ‘how to get a girlfriend’. Within the last 6 years a man’s search for a girlfriend has increased by two folds. I am not saying that finding a girlfriend for yourself and trying to spend the rest of your life with her is a bad idea. But why would you want to know how to find a girlfriend on the internet? Are you just interested in interacting with her online? I m sure you are not, but if so, then why?
Getting a girlfriend is not an art that you need to learn. Your girlfriend reflects who and what you are. If you have a beautiful girlfriend with zero intellect and is just a sleep buddy, you are losing a lot in life. A girl isn’t a sex amusement park, neither is she a use and throw sex toy and nor does she come with ‘you keep it if you like it’ tag.
Stop searching guys, if she is meant to happen to you, SHE WILL. And I can assure you of that.
And a quick tip for all you guys who still can’t stop searching for a girl, BE YOURSELF. And I m sure you will find a girl, who is beautiful from the inside; her thoughts and her heart(stop thinking too much).
But I m still stuck with my question, “Where are we heading?” Hope somebody will come to my wandering souls rescue.