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So, You Want a Girlfriend?

Updated on April 25, 2011
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If you are a boy or a man, who is desperate to get a girlfriend and have landed on this page, “I’m sorry folks; we are not talking about dating or finding a girlfriend here!” Then what are we going to talk about? Well, it’s a tough question. Let’s find out.

Girlfriend’s once used to be a man’s support. His only way of expressing his feelings freely and absolving from the high-o-high bosses expectations. The manly pride could never stand anywhere in front of her and the man always welcomed his head on her warm lap. A man had always loved being cared for. The small things that matter have always been there too. “Could you stop smoking for me?” or “Don’t drink too much at the party tonight.”

With changing times, the definition of a girlfriend has also changed. It’s a status symbol now.” You don’t have a girlfriend!!!?”, “What a jerk you are!”  People make weird faces when they hear, “I never had a girlfriend” or “I haven’t found that special person yet.” And if you haven’t lost your virginity by the age of 18, you have to be the worst looking guy at high school.

I know what you are thinking. “What are you trying to say?”, It’s simple enough to answer that with just another question, “Where are we heading…?” A group of people which god believed to be his best creations ever are now racing for the Popularity Olympics.

The other day while I was chatting with friends on facebook, my eyes caught attention to an advertisement. The header of the advertisement asked “Want a girlfriend?” Like just another teenager I clicked on the link. What happened? I was immediately sent to, a site for the love seekers.  And I contributed to facebook’s ever increasing treasuries. This is when I thought of writing a hub on this subject.


The Stats

The image on the right shows the growth rate of google searches on ‘how to get a girlfriend’. Within the last 6 years a man’s search for a girlfriend has increased by two folds. I am not saying that finding a girlfriend for yourself and trying to spend the rest of your life with her is a bad idea. But why would you want to know how to find a girlfriend on the internet? Are you just interested in interacting with her online? I m sure you are not, but if so, then why?

Getting a girlfriend is not an art that you need to learn. Your girlfriend reflects who and what you are. If you have a beautiful girlfriend with zero intellect and is just a sleep buddy, you are losing a lot in life. A girl isn’t a sex amusement park, neither is she a use and throw sex toy and nor does she come with ‘you keep it if you like it’ tag.

Stop searching guys, if she is meant to happen to you, SHE WILL. And I can assure you of that.

And a quick tip for all you guys who still can’t stop searching for a girl, BE YOURSELF. And I m sure you will find a girl, who is beautiful from the inside; her thoughts and her heart(stop thinking too much).

But I m still stuck with my question, “Where are we heading?” Hope somebody will come to my wandering souls rescue.

Who are you?

Have you ever searched "How to get a girlfriend" on the internet?

See results

Would you be my Girlfriend?


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      6 years ago

      People like me go to the net to search for answers, as to why we are alone. My friends have girlfriends why not me, is there something about me that a girl would'nt give me the time of day. I have two arms two legs like everyone else. I've tried everything, and being me, kind, considerate, understanding, doesn't get the girl oddly. After a while I began to think maybe I'm broken.

    • yshashikant profile imageAUTHOR


      7 years ago from Mumbai

      Thanks for comment and wishes once again. Enjoy writing Kamalesh.

    • Kamalesh050 profile image


      7 years ago from Sahaganj, Dist. Hooghly, West Bengal, India

      Nice hub, I have enjoyed. Keep writing.

      Best Wishes.

    • yshashikant profile imageAUTHOR


      7 years ago from Mumbai

      Thanks for stopping by Pallavi. And i guess no one knows, but she is my love and my life.

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      7 years ago

      This is ur best till nw. N seriously it's toooo gud....

    • yshashikant profile imageAUTHOR


      7 years ago from Mumbai

      I must say, this is the first genuine comment i have here on hubpages. I really appreciate taking your time and reading this hub. I m so overwhelmed. And i guess if you tell a guy to look inward, he will start wondering if he looks good and has a big penis or not. Thanks again for stopping by...

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      7 years ago from Small Town, USA

      Great advice. I always tell people that if you have to look that hard, then you perhaps should be looking inward. I wrote a hub about this phenomenon called "Too Picky or Not Picky Enough". The best love will come when you are not looking, in my humble opinion!

    • yshashikant profile imageAUTHOR


      7 years ago from Mumbai

      thanks for hoping by thehemu

    • yshashikant profile imageAUTHOR


      7 years ago from Mumbai

      Karun thanks for such a wonderful comment. I really hope that a lot more like it.

    • thehemu profile image


      7 years ago from New Delhi, India

      great hub man.

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      7 years ago

      Shashi i shud say dis is one of your best works...truely superb man.


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